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  • Stopping smoking!!
  • Torminalis
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    I think you are all awesome, in varying degrees. Yeti, I am dissapointed in you old chap, I thought you were iron willed and inspirational. I am sure my mancrush will return over time.

    My best defence after 3 and a half months of not smoking is to ask myself if I want to be a smoker again if I am tempted (which is almost never now). The answer is, and always will be, no.

    The flipside is that it would almost be worth starting again to get a kiss from TJ. *suppresses the bad thought*

    morgs
    Free Member

    Good morning Camo, good morning everybody…..

    Not too bad ta…..onwards and upwards from the slip

    camo16
    Free Member

    Good man!

    Have you managed to rinse away the eau du TJ yet? I’m told the aftertaste lingers…

    Glad you’re back on track!

    8)

    binners
    Full Member

    Morning all! I seem to be struggling this week more than last. No particular reason why I should. I may go up to 15 Satsumas today 😕

    fenred
    Free Member

    Morning All,

    Day 3 for me and feeling strong, particularly as I’ve just spent an hour and a half stuck in grid-locked traffic for a 7 mile journey to work 👿 I reckon I would have ploughed through 4 or 5 smokes during that time and I didnt even flinch…Chuffed!

    However my ongoing blockage problem remains unresolved and I am now feeling VERY uncomfortable 😕

    binners
    Full Member

    I was stuck in horrendous stationary traffic this morning too. I watched the bloke in front of me puff his way through about 4 fags in about 20 minutes, while listening to some whining, sanctimonious, bleating, mummy-knows-best, health-nazi pussy from the BMA, on five live, proposing banning smoking in cars.

    Its enough to make me start again just to piss people like that off. Strokers!

    However – I did feel a lot better that the bloke in front used to be me, but isn’t any more 😀

    khani
    Free Member

    Morning all, onwards an upwards morgs, top man! Nearly two weeks now an still have moments where I could murder a cig, they’re getting a bit less frequent now though and when temptation arrives it leaves quicker,
    Fenred, when you finally let go it’s gonna be awesome 😯

    camo16
    Free Member

    However – I did feel a lot better that the bloke in front used to be me, but isn’t any more

    Nice one, binners! 8)

    I had a weak day a while back, so I pulled out the big guns. Away went the satsumas and out came the ORANGES. Strangely, it made a difference.

    Given Fenred’s imminent Event Horizon, are we all DOOOMED?

    fenred
    Free Member

    Khani is, he only lives down the road from where I work…Police are apparently already considering cordoning off the immdeiate area.

    Please dont mock me guys, I’ve actually been an ex-pooer for longer than I’ve been a ex-smoker 😥

    camo16
    Free Member

    Sorry, fenred… no mockery intended.

    Feeling for you, buddy. These things have a habit of working out in time…

    Hohum
    Free Member

    fenred – Member
    Khani is, he only lives down the road from where I work…Police are apparently already considering cordoning off the immdeiate area.

    Please dont mock me guys, I’ve actually been an ex-pooer for longer than I’ve been a ex-smoker

    Smoking used to keep me regular as well and I would always struggle when I stopped 🙁

    As a result I would switch to All Bran for breakfast and keep some Fybogel or Sennokot in the cupboard if things get really.

    You have my sympathies, but give it time and your body will regulate itself again.

    huws
    Free Member

    Day 2 in the Huw not smoking house, not going too badly, full to the brim with coffee, satsumas (2 for one in waitrose) and hate but no one’s dead yet. Although last night after being told there were going to be a bunch of redundancies at work my studio nearly looked like Francisco de Goya’s Great Deeds Against the Dead. Didn’t smoke though. 🙂

    Fenred, I feel your pain, I once went 2 weeks without a poo due to the side effect of some serious pain killers, not something I’d like to repeat again.

    Elfinsafety
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    I used to smoke about 10 a day when I gave up, so not exactly a heavy smoker, but I was a regular, habitual smoker, i.e. light up first thing in the morning, smoking after meals and drinks, etc., the nabit was strong.

    Elf, not overly (about 10 a day) but for the last 20 years

    I’m curious as to what people think is ‘heavy’ smoking. 10 a day = 70 a week = 300 a month = 3600 faygs a year.

    Three thousand six hundred cigarettes a year, or thereabouts. Times that by something like 20 years, and what’s that, seventy two thousand cigarettes.

    Think about it.

    Personally, I think any more than a couple of cigs a day is ‘heavy’. I don’t get through 10 cigs a week, let alone a day, on average. In fact I’m probbly smoking less than 20 a month I’d say.

    Considering the cumulative effects, I’d still say that’s too many. Food for thought. I’d ideally just like to have the odd ciggie now and then, on a night out as a little ‘treat’, that sort of thing. I know folk like that, and they’re perfectly healthy.

    I’m wondering how many people on here genuinely ‘want’ to give up. Putting aside the physical addiction side of things, it seems that many folk actually enjoyed smoking, yet are giving up cios it’s bads for their health. Good reason enough.

    But how many others have considered just cutting down, to say my level of smoking, or feeling that it’s ok for them to have the odd ciggie now and then? Does it have to be complete abstinence?

    I probably tried to give up 20+ times. Not sure of the main reasons for failure – weed sometimes played a big part though.

    does not in any way sound like you actually ‘wanted’ to give up, tbh. Did you not consider cutting down instead of giving up completely?

    fenred
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    Ho Hum, cheers for the tip. If I’ve not been by cob today I’ll be heading for the pharmacy tonight to get some ‘help’.

    huws, go fella! Stress was one of my triggers too….as was getting out of bed, getting away from desk, getting home, getting drunk…Actually when you break it down, every feeling/emotion/event is a trigger. 😕

    Elf, I’d put you in the ‘recreational’ smoker category, wish I could have done that but I’m a bit ‘all or nuthin’ 🙁

    Hohum
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    Elf – A “heavy” smoker, in my opinion, is 15+ per day.

    You, at 10 per week, are an occasional smoker in my opinion.

    I would go as far as to say that you smoke just as something to do and you enjoy it (I am sure this the case from having read your previous postings about smoking and you), which is fair enough.

    Addiction is a strange disease, for me it is a progressive illness and by that I mean that if I started smoking one or two per day I would be back up to 10 a day within a week. It is all or nothing for me, so I chose nothing. Interestingly enough I am a heavy drinker, but I have been cutting that back recently without any ill effects and so I do not consider myself addicted to alcohol, but I have had serious problems with other substances in the past.

    Prior to giving up this time you are probably correct in saying that I truly did not want to give up and that is where I failed. This time it was different as I had promised myself that I did not want to be a smoker when I reached 40. Also, up until a few years ago I did very little in the way of aerobic exercise and as a result the smoking wasn’t a big issue, but I did find that the smoking was holding me back cycling-wise and that was another thing that helped me to give up.

    Wouldn’t life be boring if we were all the same?

    fenred – I hope things improve for you. It will be interesting to hear what advice your pharmacist offers. I don’t think we are alone in suffering such problems when having stopped smoking.

    huws
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    I’m wondering how many people on here genuinely ‘want’ to give up. Putting aside the physical addiction side of things, it seems that many folk actually enjoyed smoking, yet are giving up cios it’s bads for their health. Good reason enough.

    The only times I’ve ever given up for any length of time have been when I’ve just really not wanted to do it anymore, the cost and health benefits are nice but unimportant.

    But how many others have considered just cutting down, to say my level of smoking, or feeling that it’s ok for them to have the odd ciggie now and then? Does it have to be complete abstinence?

    I can’t just have one, I’m either a smoker or a non-smoker. If I have one the chances are I’ll be back to full smoking within a few weeks. 🙁

    fenred
    Free Member

    I can’t just have one, I’m either a smoker or a non-smoker. If I have one the chances are I’ll be back to full smoking within a few weekshours.

    cheese@4p
    Full Member

    From past experience one fag means Im a full on smoker again pretty soon.
    16 days without smoking for me and I hardly think about it now some days!

    camo16
    Free Member

    I can’t just have one, I’m either a smoker or a non-smoker. If I have one the chances are I’ll be back to full smoking within a few weekshours.

    This for me too. 😳

    Nice one, cheese@4p!

    RustyMac
    Free Member

    Just wanted to check back in on this tread, hope everyone is still off the fags. Congratulatins if you are.

    Keep up the good work

    Rusty

    fenred
    Free Member

    All,

    I am delighted to report that at 14.21 I had the ‘call’, squeaked my way to the gents and let nature take it’s wonderful course. All I can say is eating half your body weight in satsumas, pistachio nuts and last nights Chilli seems to have had quiet an effect on ones metabolism. 😯

    Thank you for your kind words of support throughout this difficult time. I am now left with a slight sweat on my brow and a MASSIVE nicotine craving 😳

    Elfinsafety
    Free Member

    Fair enough.

    camo16
    Free Member

    Yay!

    Now it’s satsuma time, Fenred!

    8)

    fenred
    Free Member

    I might hafta lay off the satsuma’s for a little while Camo 🙁

    camo16
    Free Member

    Understood.

    😉

    khani
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    I wondered why there was a mushroom cloud over Basildon……….

    fenred
    Free Member

    😀 There’s always been a mushroom cloud over Baz mate, the concern for the town now should be whats going on underground 😉

    …I should never have looked down….

    khani
    Free Member

    Not having a curry tonight then… 😯

    fenred
    Free Member

    Nah, meat and two veg tonight…Need to replace lost nutrients…Nuff said 😉

    LadyGresley
    Free Member

    Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear – this is just not going that well for me 🙁

    emsz
    Free Member

    Yeti!!!! your the one that made me give up!!

    I only snog non smokers you know? 😆

    fenred
    Free Member

    Lady G – Whats happening? Stop rolling those ciggies matchstick thin and grab this thing by the throat!!!!! 😕

    TheSouthernYeti
    Free Member

    I am a non smoker emsz!!

    I just decided to have a week of self-loathing. TBH these stopping smoking threads seem to make me want to smoke more thatn anything else 😆

    LadyGresley
    Free Member

    I have to admit to buying another pack of baccy – I’m so ashamed 😳
    but I’m still cutting right down on ’em.

    yunki
    Free Member

    well.. I’m still smoke free

    I’ve had a couple of years of bungled attempts but it’s going very smoothly this time around..

    I have many different reasons for giving up.. no one stand alone reason that is any more or less valid or dominant than the others..

    Health, fitness, curiosity, family, the challenge, pride, money.. blah blah blah
    it doesn’t matter which ideas you instill in yourself to help you succeed..

    fenred
    Free Member

    I have to admit to buying another pack of baccy – I’m so ashamed
    but I’m still cutting right down on ’em.

    To the naughty stair with you M’Lady…That is all.

    camo16
    Free Member

    How long’s it for you, Yunki? Great to hear you’re quitting so smoothly! 8)

    I quit 15 days ago. Can’t say it’s been smooth exactly, but it’s getting better. The unexpected smell of smoke still initiates a major craving, but I’m trying to MTFU and keep my cool!

    To everyone quitting right now (including Lady G * tsk tsk tsk * and Yeti * tsk tsk tsk *) I raise my glass and salute you!

    fenred
    Free Member

    *ching* back at you camo…despite being the noob I know I wouldn’t have come this far without this thread/support network so cheers!

    Double *ching* goes to binners for the smoking in cars thread…Nearly a new head gasket required there, the rant to end all rants! 😆

    fenred
    Free Member

    Afternoon Quiters,

    Quiet here today, we fell onto page 3 so thought a quick bump and update was appropriate.

    Everyone cool or have there been numerous a&e admissions with vit C OD’s?? 😯

    morgs
    Free Member

    After my blip, I am sound! Not having a problem at all…aided my a migraine yesterday and the aftre affects today….so all is gravy in the non-smokingness! 🙂

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