Help needed! Getting out of the friend zone!

Whatever happened to Houns and Gym girl?

philsimmo – Member
Suspense is killing me. Mods, any chance we can have this as a sticky?

He’s been having that for the last 13 years !!!

😆

How many times do you take no sorry I’m busy as an answer when trying to see her…. So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

I’ve got mates who had marriages last a shorter time than this saga

Get on with it!

wellwellwell – Member
How many times do you take no sorry I’m busy as an answer when trying to see her…. So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

It means, “sorry, i’ve found someone else to give me a good shagging, but i know you have a bit of a crush on me and i can’t find the heart to tell you yet”

Shoulda coulda woulda

You owe it to stw to keep this thread going until at least Christmas so persevere.

How many times do you take no sorry I’m busy as an answer when trying to see her…. So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

Sounds to me like she suspects. Are you sure she’s not on here?

So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

It’s not looking good is it.

Well, it’s looking great for her.

She gets Xmas pressies from him and Xmas pressies from the new bloke.. it’s a Win Win for her.

@OP: http://www.pof.com/

don’t know what you’ve said , but not sounding like she got the hots for you !

How many times do you take no sorry I’m busy as an answer when trying to see her…. So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

And with that……

How many times do you take no sorry I’m busy as an answer when trying to see her…. So far I’m at twice cancelled and then 2 no sorry can’t do that I’m busy

Girls don’t like quitters, she’s just playing hard to get and trying to see how much you want to be with her.

Send her a bloody text. Ffs man.

Ok I’ve nailed her down to lunch on Saturday.

wellwellwell – Member

Ok I’ve nailed her, down to ‘lunch’ on Saturday.

take it have you got past that ‘hurst’ ?

down to lunch on Saturday.

dining at the Y ?

Lunch?

Fruity

Ok I’ve nailed her

Brilliant was it as good as you expected

down to lunch on Saturday

AH not quite then – lets hope she is not telling you about Mr new or bringing him with here

Ok I’ve nailed her down to lunch on Saturday.

You might have to let her go sooner than that 🙂 although keep her hydrated she should be ok?

Altogether in a Craig David style..

I’ve nailed her down to lunch on Saaaaturday, we were at the clinic on Suuuunday, we were back on it on Monday, and Tuesday and Wednensday and Thurrsday and back to clinic on Friiiiday

I reckon the OP will need 2 cans of petrol, some large bottles of bleach and a body bag for this date.

Lol at dribbling.

WTF is the kid/fire extinguisher pic about?

If you don’t do it at the lunch, I’m gonna hunt you down, kick you hard in the balls, then whilst you’re rolling on the floor in pain I’m gonna call her invite her over and do her right in front of you 😡

Lunch!

For the love of God. Its taken this long you need a little Dutch courage so a few beers at lunch could wipe you out.

Plus all those images of her haunting you when on Saturday she cancels as she met a guy who actually had a pair and took her out on Friday!

😆 Excellent thread. Good luck op! Have we had a picture of her yet?

I do hope she says yes but as many have said here you need to get it sorted. Just for our collective mental health so we can all move on!

OP were all expecting an update by 4pm on Saturday then. In fact just leave STW open on you smartphone over lunch and give us a blow by blow account (so to speak)

WTF is the kid/fire extinguisher pic about?

Flames [of passion] being put out I assume Al

😆 STW of old.. 😆

BTW OP before you do ask. Your not my type. Sorry.

I would love to be a fly on the wall. Agree with Merak night time date drinks, food, nice conversation, coffee! Breakfast!

Plus its a bit early to go onto shots if she knocks you back, you will wasted by 8pm.

lunch? 🙄

However …….. how do you back into the friends zone? as in i shagged a mate a month or so ago (we were a couple for a while, way back) and now i cant get rid of her, she turns up every evening and just hangs around until its time to start cooking, im basically in a relationship where we aren’t sleeping together but i cook her dinner every night and now she seems to want me to train her sisters dog FFS. help

Jonah thats got to be a separate thread but just tell her you girlfriend will be here in a bit so she should make herself scarce.

thats not going to work pingu, she has been hanging round too long now, she knows im single 🙁

Lunch? Lunch! Lunch is what she does with her OGBF**.

Fail.

** I looked it up http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=really%20good%20gay%20male%20friend

My post was deleted! Nazis. I was genuinely trying to help the guy he must have balls like water melons by now.

However …….. how do you back into the friends zone?…

Wait ’til Saturday afternoon then introduce her to OP.

Brilliant mattjg,that’ll kill two…..,well one of them metaphors