Help needed! Getting out of the friend zone!

I thought nbt was gay too.

‘snot gay if you don’t push back

?????

nbt’s not gay?

‘snot gay if you don’t push back

(C)sir jimmy saville 1976

notoriously bi turnip

Not between those?

no bum todgering

oops tried posing a link for youtube but would not work. I’m not gay though!

OP has gone suspiciously quiet. So either him and his intended are rogering away trying to make up for all the wasted years, or he’s thrown himself down a well. What is it?

(never before teatime)

Still here, just been busy at work. Tried calling her yesterday, though no answer. I should be seeing her this weekend!

I thought you were seeing her for dinner on Monday?

I should be seeing her this weekend!

Good luck!

Make sure you don’t let condoms fall out of your wallet when you pay the bill.

OP hate to tell you this but she didn’t answer the phone as she was busy being rogered by her new fella. She’ll tell you all about it in great detail on the weekend. HTH 😉

It could be you’ll get a knock back the first time but she’ll warm to the idea with some reflection

What you need to do is “plant the seed”.

(Sorry).

You tried calling her and there was no answer = she has read this thread, doomed laddy your doomed 😉

Sorry to go back a page, but: NBT’s not gay?

Another vote here for ‘just do it’, from another person who has been married for 11 years and has 2 kids with my best friend (for 5 years, prior to getting together, after my divorce).

A friendship is a very good basis for a deeper relationship, knowing someone well before you start certainly helped us! Its a bit of a risky moment when you do take the plunge, but worth it.

Sorry to go back a page, but: NBT’s not gay?

Phew that’s a relief 🙂

Also I like what bigdaddy has written above.

Its a bit of a risky moment when you do take the plunge

Might be a good idea to tie some rope round your waist and the other end round the bed post, just in case.

You can’t plant the seed unless you take the plunge.

Plant the seed, let it grow into a plant…then you **** THE PLANT!

Any updates? dithering minds need to know

are you flying high or drowning your sorrows? update please.

Whatever happens- it’ll work out ok in the end..
But c’mon, tell us!

she’s seen this thread. That “could” work for you. HEY LADY this guy’s ok, he’s on stw! I’m sure he’s perfectly normal!

**** THE PLANT
. Good advice.

C’mon O.P. I don’t watch soaps so lurking on here is my vicarious living. I need to know how this turned out!!!

I hope your lack of an update means you’re still round there giving her one.

The silence is deafening

I’ve been friends with her for 13 years

Good luck, you are going to need it!

Best thing you can do is find another girl and try and take her out for a drink within a couple of weeks, rather than taking 13 years.

… keeping the dream alive… any update?

He’s balls deep in lurve

Let’s hope it’s not a case of…

that’s preposterous

a gentleman never takes ice with whisky

That’s hers, not his

A mercy killing perhaps

I smell shame.

The only shame there has been is the fact that this time I had to cancel due to work.

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks, however I don’t want to wait that long.

I’m going to ring her when I come of nights