But I applaud the middle aged male faux internet outrage.
Is it outrage, or is it people trying to understand others’ views on when it is and isn’t ok to refer to women as whores? I think there’s a general acknowledgement here (from the very title of the thread onwards) that, as men, most of us aren’t entitled to set the agenda on this. But there are more nuances to the use of arguably derogatory and/or sexualised terms than simply “it’s always fine if a woman does it and always wrong if a man does it”.
But clearly, it’s the social media norm to denounce any discussion as “outrage”, so crack on, it saves trying to understand stuff.