You seek affirmation from your peers the same way most folk do. No harm in that, but trust me sonny, you display the same need to appear superior as many on here do. Granted, you do it in a more positive manner than others, but the basic need for affirmation and attention is the same.
Truth is, unless you know someone, you don’t actually know what their intentions or true attitudes are really, so assuming things about them to fit into your own view is somewhat defensive and insecure ultimately.
Aren’t these two statements, amde by the same person, just the teensiest bit contradictory?
You really don’t know if people post here because they’re interested in a topic, want to appear superior, are just argumentative idiots … or all of the above. I can only speak for myself when I say that I post here either to have a chat (‘cos that’s fun), to inform, or just to piss about. The odd elliptical comment thrown into a conversation is always good for a laugh.
And I do find this place to be astonishing in every sense of the word; just today I’ve seen an excellent Chamonix video, a reference to the Pope Pius IX and the 1870 First Vatican Council’s decgree on papal infallibility, a very positive update from a guy going through cancer treatment, a discussion with Brant on his frame-pricing strategy…..as well as the endless bickering between one guy and everyone else. All human life is here, both good and bad.
I don’t like the sexism, but until there are more women telling people to shut the f*** up, it’s unlikely to change. Lefty-liberal types (I’m one) are unlikely to change people’s minds by telling the miscreants to play nicely, sad though that may be.