Him being Asian could have a relevance, could not. This kind of thing happens to me occasionally, round here. I’ve had it off White lads, Black, and Asian.
Ok.
To try and bring a little bit of insight to this…
Many young Asian men tend to hang around in quite large groups. Round here, at least, the reason for this stemmed from the fact that smaller groups and lone bods would often suffer racist attacks from gangs of thugs. So, a sort of defensive thing; safety in numbers. Another, is the ‘Gang’ thing aspect of ‘street culture’.
IME, the most aggressive and antagonistic group, in this area, are the young Asian lads. Mostly, things are fine, but if there is any trouble, guaranteed, there will be loads of them appear, within seconds. I’ve learned not to get into situations with Asian lads, if there’s the threat of loads more round the corner. Call it cowardly, but it doesn’t seem to be a part of Asian culture, to have a fair ‘one-on-one’. No, you’re more likely to get a kicking off a dozen or more.
Also, this is exacerbated by the incredible arrogance displayed by some young Asian men. If there are any females around, they can behave in the most appalling manner. The posturing and arrogance is seen as more of a positive, even desirable quality, it seems, within young Asian culture. The boys act big and tough, and the girls think it’s all brave and macho. Everyone else just think they’re being dickheads.
Now, you add into this mix, sexual frustration. This is the really worrying aspect of the drive to violence, within so many young men, of all colours. But withing the highly segregated Asian communities, many of the young lads are just not finding a natural outlet for their frustrations, and sexual desires. So, this gets warped, and manifests itself as arrogant and aggressive behaviour. The big, flashy cars thing is part of it (as it is so with other groups, too), as is the flashy clothes, fancy ‘phones etc.
So, whilst their counterparts from other cultures are getting some, the young Asians are, on the whole, not. With many of them being obliged to enter into arranged marriages, their only sexual encounters are often with prostitutes (prostitution is rife, in this area, and the vast majority of clients are young Asian men), or girls from other cultures. These are secret and ‘illicit’ liasons, and are extremely frowned upon, within the Asian community, and therefore kept quiet. So, sex is seen as something ‘dirty’ and ‘wrong’, outside of marriage, and living in a society where sexual openness is prevalent, and sexual activity seen as ‘normal’ and acceptable, these young men, full of raging hormones, are often, quite simply, walking time-bombs. This is a problem that is not addressed, and not even discussed, within the Asian community.
I’ve dealt with sneering, arrogant little **** by saying stuff like ‘you’re a virgin, aren’t you (18-20 year old lads don’t seem to like this)?’ ‘You don’t even know what a woman looks like, do you?’. They usually have no response other than apoplectic rage.
So, getting back to the OP…
You walked on. You did the right thing. All you need to know, next time, is that the poor little fecker isnt, well, ****, and that’s why he’s all wound up.
Hope this sheds some light on this particular issue.
