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  • CountZero
    Full Member

    I guess we have all had our hearts broken at sometime, a sucky thing to have in common,

    Oh, yes…
    And quite recently. Indeed, it sucks.
    Whatever, it’s happened before, and I’m afraid I’m guilty of doing the same as well, the hurt I caused someone I loved stops me from ever doing it again. 😐

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    Who’s Emily Green?

    You weren’t there, man, you weren’t even there……

    mrmoofo
    Free Member

    Wasn’t your the boyfriend the one who had given up smack, only using once every 4 weeks?

    teasel
    Free Member

    I-J was superior to Emily Green in every way…

    troglodyte
    Free Member

    It’s Bunny G.

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    My ex has hurt a lot of people in his life, some weirdly are still his friends, he isn’t a bad person at heart, and I don’t think he meant to hurt me, but in a way I hope this hurts him more so he learns that he can’t keep doing this to people, that if he can’t feel love for anyone then he should stay alone.

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    IJ was hotter, too.

    legspin
    Free Member

    I-J that’s it was trying to think of the name. Wonder if Wheelie knows Pete

    kendo954
    Free Member

    Ok – northern Irish ? Lol

    teasel
    Free Member

    IJ was hotter, too.

    I was going to concur and post with an accompanying pic of that avatar but Google threw-up this…

    She’s let herself go.

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Mrmoofo that was the big lie that started this whole mess, the way he talked about his habit before and when I got here. He made it sound as though it was well and truly in the past, which once I got here tuned out to not be the case, at first I didn’t notice, then after a while I started noticing things, I asked he denied, I gave him so many opportunities to tell me, I asked again, he got angry saying how dare I accuse him of being an addict, I left it alone, finally we got talking and it all came out, I didn’t care that he was using, I cared he had lied to my face, and once someone lies about one thing the doubt spreads, he was very flirtatious with his female friends and naturally that doubt started creeping in on that area too, not helped by the fact that one day he had left his facebook open on my iPad on a message page to a woman I had never heard of that said, “been thinking about you too, lets meet up discreetly though as too many people would get hurt if they found out, we can catch up and see whatever else happens” being the trusting person I am I gave him chance to explain, he said he had been drunk, it had come out wrong and he had said discreetly as the couple had just split up and being friends with them both he was worried the guy would find out and get mad if it looked like he was taking sides.
    So again I gave him a chance and I got over it and nothing more was said on the matter. It all just feels like the biggest lie and a huge sick joke at my expense.
    I’m also angry cause I have got to know his family really well, and his brother is a single dad to two great kids, who are 10 and 6 who I have grow to love like my own family, and I’m mad at him for telling them that we were always going to be there for them cause now I feel I have broken my promise to them.

    teasel
    Free Member

    Oh…here we go…

    *swoons*

    legspin
    Free Member

    Did we find out who the picture was actually of? I once saw Pete at an event and he looked nothing like that.

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Emily green, IJ?? Someone explain to us folk who don’t know what the hell you are on about! It’s driving me nuts!

    teasel
    Free Member

    I once saw Pete at an event and he looked nothing like that.

    🙂

    Gutted…

    Edit : though I imagine he dressed-up like the first avatar pic I posted when he was in-character on the forum.

    duntstick
    Free Member

    Strange chatting to blokes professing to be gurlz……..how effin desperate……………

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Ok who is Pete? Did I mention I only got two hours sleep? I’m getting confused now!

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Are you suggesting I’m a man posting as a woman? Hmm there are several parts of my anatomy that would prove I’m definitely a woman but as I mentioned before, they will not be getting posted on here!

    legspin
    Free Member

    Edit : though I imagine he dressed-up like the first avatar pic I posted when he was in-character on the forum.

    urgghhhh! but funny

    buzz-lightyear
    Free Member

    Wheelie: this the normal chaos where people who know each other go off on tangents about threads lost before the great hack or back in the gofar days.

    You were right to suspect but too trusting I think. It’s human nature to want to trust people you care for in it!? You can do better though.

    jock-muttley
    Full Member

    now you have to explain the great hack to the poor lass…

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    That pic of IJ…….hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm……niiiiiiiiice.

    😉

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    I know I’m too trusting and no doubt I’ll do it again, I don’t want to loose my faith in people or love.

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Its ok the great hack I am aware of!

    TuckerUK
    Free Member

    I had an overseas girlfriend move here to live with me many moons ago. When she got here I realised that the brief but passionate affair I’d just ended with an employee was actually who I REALLY wanted to be with.

    To cut a long story short, my new ‘affair’ g/f eventually moved abroad, I suffered a nervous breakdown partly as a result, and the dumped ex. married a hunky fireman back in her own country and lived happily ever after. She still phones a few times a year…you girls can be an odd lot sometimes.

    See, what goes around comes around.

    stevied
    Free Member

    These things happen for a reason. One of my ex’s moved to Australia many years ago for 6 months to help her mum settle down there and we planned for me to go out for a month and have 2 weeks at her mums then spend 2 weeks travelling round. I worked my arse off for 2 months saving up doing stupid amounts of overtime. Got it all saved up, holiday sorted etc. Flew out (my 1st time ever on a plane) to Sydney-Melbourne-Tasmania only to get dumped after 2 days.
    Need less to say the plans we’d made went right out of the window. I thought about flying back asap but decided to just get on with it. Ended up meeting some great people (1 I still ride with now as he moved to London) and had a ball. I also ended up meeting some guys who worked in the same line as me. Cut a long story short…got a message off them about 6 months later asking me if I fancied going out to work for 6 months. Had the best time ever..
    I guess what I’m trying to say is – make the most of it, what ever you decide to do. If you can stay there for a while, do it, enjoy it and see what happens 🙂

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    I’d like to stay here for a while, I have a job so not stuck on the money side of things, and I’ve made some fantastic friends here already, so yeh see what happens I guess.

    somouk
    Free Member

    I love Adelaide so if I was you I’d hang around there and find a nice Aussie guy to keep you going.

    No point coming back to grey old Britain! Just enjoy singledom.

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    I actually love it here too, but might give the men a miss for a bit, back to good old lonely singledom it is.

    What sucks about all this right now is that my ex was the person who has been there for me for the last 7 years and was the one I would always turn to in times of need and now I can’t do that, I’m not sure i have ever been this let down by one person in my life, even when I split from my husband it didn’t hurt this much.

    Kryton57
    Full Member

    Right op. Now the time wasters have gone, I’ve lit the candles, run the bath, poured the wine and warmed up the massage oil. I’ll even remove my smoking jacket and slippers for your visual pleasure.

    When will you be round, just so I know like…?

    MrOvershoot
    Full Member

    Ahh those were the days India Jane & Wee-Pete it was like Car Crash Forum every night on BM along with Dylan & his latest “Brain Farts”

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Kryton57 sounds like you have got it sorted!!

    Scapegoat
    Full Member

    Or you could nip round here. We’ll watch the rugby, get spannered on cheap lager and light farts.

    Scapegoat
    Full Member

    kendo954 – Member
    Wheelie- have you any Irish in you?

    Wheelie good – Member
    The ex was part Irish, so no not anymore!

    That buggered your punchline kendo!

    wolfenstein
    Free Member

    Textbook case of getting back together in the end and again would still split up for good. Not meant to be harsh.. Just ride the waves you will be fine .. As most cases of the heart only time can heal and tell…

    …and i agree with you, some people are better off alone..some of us learned this in a hard way 😉

    2hottie
    Free Member

    Sorry STW – WG, spent the night at mine, clearly up to no good on the internet.

    I can confirm that picture is a fair likeness. A little photo-shopped but almost right.

    She’s been fed Cider to cheer her up. So nothing to worry about.

    toxicsoks
    Free Member

    Wheelie good – Member
    Kryton57 sounds like you have got it sorted!!

    His missus will have him sorted if she sees that post…….

    mikewsmith
    Free Member

    I remember you asking for advice prior to coming over. Hope the visa is solid and for you not joint. Plenty to enjoy over here whatever you decide to do, it’s a great country to explore. In the end things happen for a reason (though we never find out which one)

    Hope things turn out OK.

    zokes
    Free Member

    Look after her 2hottie!

    Wheelie-good
    Free Member

    Thanks mikewsmith visa is just a working holiday one so will see what happens I guess got till October if I want, and there is still loads I’d like to do here!

    Zokes they are doing a great job!

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