Kicked the GF out for going to the movies with another guy. Unreasonable?

Last night the relationship councillor said we both have issues not just trust and that we both want to fix and work it out.

Dude, we’ve been telling you that for pages now.

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the relationship councillor said we both have issues not just trust

Did she/he mention the word “fickle” ?

Frankenstein – Member

Sorry for ranting. Wasted a decade of my life. New bike?

Frankenstein – Member

Not buying a bike. Looking at new cars now.

Frankenstein – Member

I told her to be happy and I’m moving on without her.

Frankenstein – Member

I’ve told her we will see a therapist if she can’t agree equal boundaries.

Does your GF have any clue what you want?

Because I’ll be **** if I do.

Last straw and I told her if she wanted male friends I should be able to talk to my female friends without her worrying but that’s not right…

What’s good for the goose must be good for the gander, you either play by the same rules or not at all.

She sounds controlling & insecure.

Walk away.

edit: RUN AWAY.

double edit: RIDE AWAY. FAST.

Yes, I can see that trust is a big issue here

I’d like to know more about these “platonic dates”.

Are they dates or are they platonic?

I’m still confused.

Tectonic plates

Did the earth move for you dear?

I’m still confused.

I want to know if he is outside or inside boy, then I might have a little hint of clarity.

For the other side of the story, why not head over to imaginarygirlfriendtrackworld and check the thread entitled “I’m homeless and I don’t like chocolates..”

A Marathon satisfies. Wait, that’snickers now init

curto80 – Member
I’d like to know more about these “platonic dates”.
Are they dates or are they platonic?
POSTED 17 MINUTES AGO # REPORT-POST

Just catching up with old friends and yes an ex too, but nothing happened and nor did I want it to as I would not cheat but I did admit I enjoyed the attention.

And this was brought up last evening. I don’t want any insecurities in our relationship and we both want to make it stronger. Yes some of it is my fault for working long hours. The councillor struggled to get her to see wrongdoings too.

So the platonic dates were not dates?

No they were not dates. I had coffee catch ups and laughed about old uni stories and invited the other half.

If there was flirting it wasn’t physical nor was I looking for sex. I’m pretty loyal. As a man I enjoyed their company but not to the point of booking a hotel room.

Once she had a friend flirt with me intentionally as a test which I didn’t know but gave her the cold shoulder and told my other half what happened.

imaginarygirlfriendtrackworld

Singletwatworld?

Once she had a friend flirt with me intentionally as a test which I didn’t know but gave her the cold shoulder and told my other half what happened.

No they were not dates. I had coffee catch ups and laughed about old uni stories and invited the other half.

That’s really not what you said on that thread 9 months ago.

http://singletrackworld.com/forum/topic/how-many-dates-have-you-had-in-a-day#post-6962314

But I do get the impression that you change your mind a lot.

Freddie no longer believes in the OP*
He just wants to ride his bicycle.

*or Peter Pan…..or Superman for that matter.

Something isn’t right here. Can we let this thread die?

Lots of serious and lots of funny answers, but beginning to think you deserve each other 🙁

The natural conclusion is for her to catch you in bed in an uncomprimsing position with GoldMember, a packet of revels and a curly-wurly.

And for you to say ”this is exactly what it looks like”

Good luck

Or…

Wasted a decade of my life.

You probably did the right thing kicking her out – however you didn’t waste a decade, you had it seems, mostly a good time.

Marriage for life was invented before the dark ages when people died in their 30’s/40’s and a good chunk of girls would die in childbirth ages 16 etc etc.

Now that we live longer, people have time to change. Most of societies hang ups are because we’re still living in the dark ages emotionally, when it comes to relationships. Society and individuals, by and large are mostly too childish to deal with these issues in manner that doesn’t involve black and white thinking and throwing tantrums.

I love veg

We can tell that from this thread.

Oh wait, veg, you said

This thread is AMAZING!!! I’m so glad I’m on a different time-zone or I’d be wasting hours of my life refreshing it.

🙂

Ok you got me!

You need some help, or a mirror.