It’s interesting that minor illegal activity you commit is ok, but minor illegal activity committed by someone else is beyond the pale.
It’s not the activity – it’s the attitude and follow up.
Here’s a little test: do some modest speeding and when stopped by a traffic officer try being calm, polite, reasonable and apologetic.
Now repeat the test, but this time try shouting and swearing at the officer, refusing to get out of the car and asking him what he’s gonnae dae abit it.
I’m pretty sure you’ll find that the second scenario lands you in the back of a police van more often than the first.
Is that fair?