Would you date a call girl?

In your egarness to grab the moral high ground you have missed my point.
Enjoy the view

Evidently. Why don’t you elaborate?

Indeed, instead of resorting to flaming or cheap point scoring, just try and make your point. If the other person has not understood, perhaps you did not explain it very well?

How much money cougar? Will she sleep with someone she is attracted to for less money? Will she do ‘other’ things for more money? Will she let a couple of blokes do it for a bit more money?

Assuming for the sake of argument that she’s doing it out of choice, that’s up to her, surely. I’m not going to be judging her lifestyle choices.

If she’s being forced / coerced into it, ie she’s the victim of a crime, then that’s an entirely different thing. But so long as they’re safe and they consent then I fail to see what two (or more) people choose to do with their bodies and their wallets is anyone else’s concern.

(On a point of note, I’ve never visited a prostitute, known one, or known anyone who admits to doing so. I have no vested interest here other than challenging judgemental minds.)

How many, statistically, have had sex on a first date I wonder?
How many have had sex at swingers’ parties or in fetish clubs?

How many have used dating sites primarily to hook up?

How many have gone to pubs and clubs purely to get pissed and laid?
But all of these examples still assume the woman chooses a partner that she find sexually attractive – they want to get laid but they still go through a process of choosing who they wish to have sex with.

A prostitute has sex with anyone simply to get money.

To me they are utterly different scenarios.

Sure, but I think you’re replying just to my post there rather than in the context of the discussion.

Again, victims aside, women have sex because they want to. Reasons might vary; they’re in love, they’re horny, they want money, a cavalcade of other reasons. Who are we to say which of those reasons are the ones we approve of?

A prostitute has sex with anyone simply to get money.

not true…as pointed out shes actually quite choosy about her clients….

I wouldn’t date a working one, an ex perhaps. A pornstar, no way, nor ex porn star. Fame and notoriety will need a very hard skin to deal with the future fallout ie recognition when shopping together (although societies perceptions are changing rapidly with sex due to porn)
But on the other hand I wouldn’t like to date a virgin again.

I’m sure there must be a 31.6 or 27.2 seatpost insertion joke in here somewhere?

Sure, but I think you’re replying just to my post there rather than in the context of the discussion.

Probably – had a busy day and just come up for air for 5 minutes of distraction.

How many, statistically, have had sex on a first date I wonder?

How many have had sex at swingers’ parties or in fetish clubs?

How many have used dating sites primarily to hook up?

How many have gone to pubs and clubs purely to get pissed and laid?
I think we need a poll.

How many, statistically, have had sex on a first date I wonder? yes!

How many have had sex at swingers’ parties or in fetish clubs? yes!

How many have used dating sites primarily to hook up? yes!

How many have gone to pubs and clubs purely to get pissed and laid? No!

I think we need to bring in an expert here…..

How many have purely gone to get pissed and laid, and failed. Yes

Wow, 212 posts in 4 hours!

Clearly its not a post about the Green party or Skodas! I’ll have to read through it……

Im sure rockape63 has done all of the above judging by the usual antics of his work colleagues :p

TPbiker so she is picky with clients, does that mean she enjoys having sex with the ones she chooses? Can’t say I would particularly like my gf just picking guys to have sex with because she enjoys it.

Or is she picky because she can tolerate it with those guys?

I feel sorry for men/women who end up in prostitution, I bet none of them grow up thinking ‘ I want to be a prostitute when I’m older ‘ .

All the comments about STI’s are so stupid. Your are just as likely to get an STI off anyone, not just a prostitute.

Thank you for that unkind comment, Pimpchild. FYI she went back to her childhood sweetheart.

Apologies oldboy for any offence caused. There was nothing there not meant in jest.

wow!

missed this one.

erm, there some ‘interesting’ POVs 😯

All the comments about STI’s are so stupid. Your are just as likely to get an STI off anyone, not just a prostitute.

I dunno Id day the odds of someone who’s slept with 15000 ppl having an sti are greater than someone barely into double figures.

I dunno Id day the odds of someone who’s slept with 15000 ppl having an sti are greater than someone barely into double figures.

someone barely into double figures is going to have a very limited sexual skill base.

someone barely into double figures is going to have a very limited sexual skill base.

hahaha 2 😐

I’m mostly just making it up as I go along

OK so she’s choosy with her clients. Right.

She’s a plain old nyphomaniac who was into free love and then started getting paid for it.

You do realise that once shes had a taste for sexual freedom it’ll always be there.

Growing up I knew two. It was normal to them. Tom’s will always sniff out her. They just ‘know’.

The girls that come down here and work the Ghurkas for a weekend earn three grand, not sure I’d want to spend the weekend banging ghurkas but it’s not a bad pay check for a weekends work.

The rate is more than sixty quid I should point out, this is the south east after all, everything appears to cost more, but it’s still a shedload of Ghurkas…

someone barely into double figures is going to have a very limited sexual skill base.

Debatable. Depends how… progressive those partners were.

Limited partner girls aren’t as good? Seriously like a 100,000miler repcar mileage doesn’t equal realisation/natural talent or confidence.

If anything more partners = jaded and bitter

If anything more partners = jaded and bitter

i dont know i used to be a nerdy loser teenager, i was jaded and bitter then but not now.

Seriously like a 100,000miler repcar mileage doesn’t equal realisation/natural talent or confidence

Its okay for you to be experienced though Hora?

What about women who date 1 man for 10 years. Surely theyve probably done more ****? Are they damaged goods as well?

You were jaded and bitter because you wanted rid of your meat n two veg. Not cos you’d slept with many people though?

Sten1 no that’s teenage angst. You seem to be prolific on this topic. Why? What’s your gig

Tom you are going to explain what you mean, it reads like you’ve misread into something.

Can I just give a small round of applause to the most intelligent post on this thread on page one by Teasel, even if it contributed nothing to the argument whatsoever.

Page two, actually but still…

You seem to be prolific on this topic. Why? What’s your gig

i have a strong professional interest in it, well more a weekend warrior type interest but never the less, its a subject close to my heart.

Soon as i’d cleared it with the wife, i’d be on her ‘like a tramp on a kipper’. 🙂

Back to the original question it would be a no for me. Not because of any moral outrage but because every working girl I’ve met during my work has been damaged in some way or other 🙁 At the very least the work has made them hard and cynical. Very often even the expensive girls have serious emotional problems that would make having a proper loving relationship very difficult.
There might be exceptions out there, but the myth of the happy go lucky free spirited girl making a couple of quid is just that, a myth.

Sten1 close to your heart, wallet and/or pleasure circuits?

There might be exceptions out there, but the myth of the happy go lucky free spirited girl making a couple of quid is just that, a myth.

100% correct… but no reason not to date a person, many many people have much bigger emotional issue and have never sold sex.

someone barely into double figures is going to have a very limited sexual skill base.

Ohh look what I missed whilst working 😯

In answer to the OP’s Q, No, no fanx. Don;t care what she looked like nor how good in the sack she was or indeed wasn’t.
Just knowing that a “potential” partner was on the Game, shagged what could be 1000’s of blokes and earning from it would send shivers down my lilly livered moral backbone and with that I’d not entertain knowing that person, like at all. I’d just cut it right dead there and then, probably to her face too. Which when you read that makes me out to be a right inconsiderate tosser which isn’t the case really.
I have known loose women and some proper slapper blokes too, and I steer clear once I get the gist of who they really are and what (lack of) morals they have. I just can’t bare the thought of sleeping around, picking up women/men in clubs for one night stands.. ohhh no. Not for me that. Ewe, all that sloppy hundreds (never mind seconds)
*shivers and shudders

I’m a proper prude me. 😀

No, no I really am 😆

Anyways, carry on, what difference does my opinion make to your life ?

None.. exactly none.

😛

Jeez, guys and gals, the economic recovery is shaky as it is, the time spent on this thread this afternoon may have pushed us back into recession!

Never stir another mans porridge