I have been to Pakistan. I have also been to Afghanistan, which, along the borders is really the same place. The locals don’t think of themsleves as one or the other, their allegiance is tribal.
I can assure you that “Violent, paranoid, corrupt, nucleur armed and very very religious” doesn’t even come close to describing the place or the people, or their way of thinking.
The news of the region that we read here, even in the Daily Mail has been watered down and sanitized so as not to offend our Western sensibilities.