I somehow feel the need to "declare an interest" here…
For those that don't already know, I'm kinda involved in this whole LGBT Pride thing, being as I am transsexual. Believe me, it's been a f$$king* difficult thing to deal with and, without the huge help of friends involved in things like Pride, my long-term biking friends and everyone else, I'd probably be a gibbering wreck by now.
As it happens, through their support, I'm happier than I've ever been and getting out biking again and loving every minute of it.
Don't try to understand something you're not; it just isn't possible. Just accept that how things work in your head (and heart) isn't necessarily how other people think (and love).
Rachel
* sorry mods – I'm not one for swearing normally but sometimes it's actually the only word that works.