Kicked the GF out for going to the movies with another guy. Unreasonable?

Mary Shelley would be proud…

Whether i gain any satisfaction purely from the idea that they want to by in my company as some kind of personal flattery or a ‘power up’ for my ego is an interesting idea. It’s not something that i’d really thought about until you posed the question and It’s probably not something i could answer off the cuff as it would need a fair bit of thought to reach any sort of honest conclusion, but I guess it’s is possible on some level even if it’s not a conscious one.

I said I like to overanalyse things! Not sure what the answer is either.

Door … back … 😆

Smash his own back doors in?

Are you rehearsing the plot of your novel?

And no thanks for the stalkers.

Nice one OP..

Forget that Santa Cruz choice, buy a kids trike instead..

The go play in the naughty corner. 🙄

Oh dear 😐

The previous break up was with her but we managed to patch things up.

The dates were with women friends who I grew up or caught up. Nothing other platonic.

I told my other half everything before and after.

I just don’t like the idea of a guy hitting on her and she is claiming blindness.

I can’t trust her and maybe it is my fault. I told her to be happy and I’m moving on without her.

Not buying a bike. Looking at new cars now.

I’m not seeing a huge difference here if that really is true…

I’m really confused.

Having had a quick scan of the other threads, I’m more concerned. All does not seem quite right with Frankenstein. 😐

OP are you trolling?

Cougar – Moderator
On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthals and halfwits.

FTFY 🙂

On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthals

What do you have against Dutch people anyway?

it wasn’t a chocolate cock made from a mold of his own gentleman parts was it? I once got the wrong idea about a yound lady in my office and sent her one of these for valentines….didn’t go down well…

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t wasn’t a chocolate cock made from a mold of his own gentleman parts was it? I once got the wrong idea about a yound lady in my office and sent her one of these for valentines….didn’t go down well..

Is that because it was less than a mouthful?

You fashioned a cock from the mold you found on your own gentleman parts?

hora – Member
OP are you trolling

Actually no. I do appreciate everyone’s advice.

I’ve told her we will see a therapist if she can’t agree equal boundaries. E.g. both of us can have any gender friendships and be trusted.

We both said if we wanted to find someone else we would tell each other way ahead.

I don’t trust these other guy friends and she doesn’t trust these other women friends.

At the moment we are taking a time out for a few days. Maybe I’m too angry and jealous to talk to her right now.

I also told him if he tries anything on he’ll need an ambulance. He did apologise so he was trying it on.

I still think your previous posts about multiple dates signals something about your approach to life, even when in a relationship.

So you threatened him??? IMO That will make you look like a dick in her eyes unless she is the type of chick that gets off on seeing blokes fight.

I also told him if he tries anything on he’ll need an ambulance. He did apologise so he was trying it on.

Or maybe he didn’t want to antagonise the violent man.

I don’t trust these other guy friends and she doesn’t trust these other women friends.

You’re missing the point though. Do you trust each other? If you do, you don’t have to trust anyone else. It’s her (and your) job to stay faithful (or reach some other sort of agreement if you’re so inclined), the rest of the world can do what they want and are outside of your control.

Walk away mate.
Wish her well, you’ve had some good times, but sounds like a situation that’s not going to right itself.

Summers on its way, you’ve a few months ahead where you’ll feel crap (sometimes), but get out on the bike, hike a few mountains, few weekends at the coast on a Fatbike etc, you’ll be ok.

I’d be off on the bike come summer, somewhere nice. That Danube cycle path always sounds good.
Istanbul. Always fancied going there.

I don’t trust these other guy friends and she doesn’t trust these other women friends.

Sounds like a great relationship, sounds like you both have issues. Trust is a pretty fundamental thing to have in a relationship. I think you’ll find that things won’t work out very well if you don’t have it.

My Mrs has quite a few male friends through work and sports. Do they all want to sh*g her? Probably quite a few of them do yes. Would it happen and do I worry about it? No, because I trust her and our relationship is important to both of us.

Do i go and threaten her friends because some of them want to sh*g her? No, because I’m a confident guy I don’t feel threatened by it, I quite like the fact that my Mrs is desirable and receives attention from other men. It re-enforces my decision that I made a good choice with her.

Because of that trust we have a good relationship whereby she can also trust me to keep my ‘roving lad’ in my trousers every time I’m left alone in an environment full of dishy young ladies (ladies whom if I was still single I’d be banging away at like a barn door in a force 9 gale). Works both ways. Good luck 🙂

matt_outandabout – Member
I still think your previous posts about multiple dates signals something about your approach to life, even when in a relationship.

And why you are keeping up this pretense….

You are one confusing individual.

Its like Jeremy kyle here,just with slightly better teeth.

with slightly better teeth

only for those the OP doesn’t think have been talking to his bird…

Interesting developments. When did all this happen?

i don’t trust these other guy friends and she doesn’t trust these other women friends.

Therefore you don’t have the basis for an adult relationship. Without trust its doomed from day 1

I’m not sure there even is a relationship now to be honest.

Definite troll

The dates were with women friends who I grew up or caught up. Nothing other platonic.

These dates?

was set up by friends and relatives and friends of friends.

I’ve spent £100 today

I’m quite happy being single! Dating is fun

My Mrs has quite a few male friends through work and sports. Do they all want to sh*g her? Probably quite a few of them do yes. Would it happen and do I worry about it? No, because I trust her and our relationship is important to both of us.

This guy gets it.

If your missus is hot and goes out with male ‘friends’ 99% of the time they will want to do the nasty with her. Wanting to do it and actually trying it on are two different things.

I had a smoking hot ex who was nuts, but totally loyal. She had loads of male ‘friends’ as she got on better with guys, but just couldn’t see that they all wanted to shag her. She was convinced that a hot woman can have lots of platonic male friends 😆

I found it pretty funny, but only as I trusted her 100%.

Some men and women can be trusted to have friends of the opposite sex and some can’t.

See my earlier post. Troll or a player who has his own rules.

Some men and women can be trusted to have friends of the opposite sex and some can’t.

Exactly, as a red blooded male I’d happily fall into a pit of mindless fornication with any of the attractive women I meet on a daily basis if I was single, if they were single, and if both of us wanted it. But if I’m in a relationship or if they’re in a relationship then it’s a no go.

Doesn’t stop me wanting to have sex with them, it just means that I value my relationship with my GF and the trust within it over and above me wanting to get a quick bit of ‘leg over’. So I keep these thoughts to myself, treat attractive ladies with respect and don’t do anything inappropriate.

So if you’re in a relationship, provided your GF does not look like Shrek, there will no doubt be countless guys wanting to have sex with her. You can’t do anything to change this so provided she’s sane, trustworthy and committed to the relationship there’s no point in worrying about it.

You can’t do anything to change this so provided she’s sane, trustworthy and committed to the relationship there’s no point in worrying about it.

Also, if she’s imaginary.

A bit shrekist there.

Looking like Shrek doesn’t seem to put anyone off!

If your missus is hot and goes out with male ‘friends’ 99% of the time they will want to do the nasty with her. Wanting to do it and actually trying it on are two different things.

Even if she’s not that hot. As I get older the % of women I would gets higher as my standards slip. But being married I don’t try it on, I think that’s a habit from being married 😉