Had a verbal fight with the gf of 15 years.
While out on business I find she has talked to an older guy who lives down the road on the phone for 2 hours at a time.
Then she went to the movies with him and then a restaurant. She tells me all about his gold extraction business.
I feel replaced she’s confiding him in and that she was having an emotional affair after I’ve been there for her. She tells me she is lonely without friends and it’s my fault. I’ve taken her out, introduced her to my friends and friends wives – it was me who moved cities to be with her and I didn’t know anyone either!
Ironically telling all my female friends not to talk to me as she felt insecure when we were engaged.
She doesn’t see it as a problem as he’s old…
Well he bought her chocolates yesterday. I told her this was taking it past our boundaries.
Last straw and I told her if she wanted male friends I should be able to talk to my female friends without her worrying but that’s not right…
I don’t trust the guy. We should be relying on one another, not someone else to confide. She was telling me she can be friends with anyone. Sure, me too.
Told to pack and leave. Don’t come back.
I’m feeling awful, I miss her but also pretty fuming and relieved she’s gone.
Sorry for ranting. Wasted a decade of my life. New bike?