Non pet owners, it seems to me, like to forget that humans are animals too. Our emotions are not “special” or exclusive to our species.
In a way, they are, as is our ability to convey them, suppress them, and disguise them.
a learnt behaviour that earns the ‘creature’ a meal ticket.
Is that really so different to a human?[/quote]
Yes, because our learning doesn’t have to be experiental. It is, in early life, but we develop the ability to learn from others mistakes, and from theoretical, hypothetical mistakes. We don’t have to make them ourselves.