If your bird was having a fling…….

It’s a grey and white situation!

I’d argue that those suggesting the OP ‘revenge shag’ the blokes wife are from a rather black viewpoint 😈

Fair enough, that’s our black!

I’m in the grey.

in some minds its about 50 shades never mind black 🙂

Or scared of being even more lonely.

I was feeling similar before I split from an ex GF (I don’t think being in a “passionless” relationship does much for your confidence), we’d been together a while didn’t hate each other but there wasn’t anything there between us, didn’t have kids to worry about, so was easier for me to take a chance. I hope things improve for you.

The whites believe that the truth must come out and the wife should be told.

I believe the wife has reason to be told, still not 100% sure I would do the telling. So I guess I’m light grey smudged white.

Dunno, if this is relevant, but a mate of mine did something similar,

Out on a Friday night in Luton and he comes across a man and a woman slugging it out, he decides to try and split them up and restore calm etc. They then BOTH turn on him and he was stabbed for his efforts.

Sometimes its best not to get involved.

Lots of this stuff would go on when I was serving abroad, really didn’t want to know, just happens I guess.

it’s nothing like as black and white as a lot of people seem to think.

I dont think anyone thinks its a black and white issue as none of us are Kants,, we can see both points of view but we pick one

I pick the “white” as I believe most folk would want to know. those who disagree seem to want to shoot me for having morals they disagree with.
either side could do gentle name calling if they want but its neither helpful or relevant and I think everyone can see all views but we all have to pick one side or the other.

Can i suggest ultra black then.
Revenge shag the wife, and the eldest daughter providing she is 18 or over

Revenge shag the wife, and the eldest daughter providing she is 18 or over

Is that the Clarkian path, as trod by statesman Alan Clark?

It has to be better than the glitter route