Anyone had partner cheat and forgiven them

The thought of ones wife/girlfriend sleeping with another woman, plays out a fantasy that some men have.

Some men like the idea of a 3some, but have insecurities about being able to satisfy both ladies.
By giving permission to their partner to engage in same sex sex or accepting the situation if it has occurred. This may allow the partner to explain what happened in more detail, thus he gets to play out the scenario in his head and therefore be apart of it.

That’s how i thought of it when i first gave my ex the go ahead to sleep with another woman. I knew she’d never go for a 3 some, so to let her do it and to hear about what happened was for me the next best thing.

giving up on understanding each other is a recipe for disaster!

You’re right, Aleigh. ‘Tis hard though!!

i hate to say it but that venus mars book thingy is pretty good – i find it very amusing!

giving up on understanding each other is a recipe for disaster!

Hence why I put the 😉

The thought of ones wife/girlfriend sleeping with another woman, plays out a fantasy that some men have.

A (female) friend of mine told me about a 3some she once had in her “experimental” days, she said it was rubbish! She kind of suggested that it would have been OK if the bloke hadn’t been there! LOL.

I thought it made quite good comedy reading. Perfect for the insecure 90’s 20 somethings.

I got the same impression from the 3some i had.

It was going great up to the point when i fell out of the cupboard i was watching from. the girls told me they wished i wasn’t there..
I think it’s the camera they really objected too.

This is all made up as the only 3some i’ve had was on stage.

PMSL @ Sharki!

It’s just a porno fantasy though. The whole threesome thing. It’s a bit skanky

Emsz.

It’s mostly for the voyeurism factor.

You’re either watching or being watched by one of the three.

Yep – its better with 4

Sharki sorry gives me the creeps. Two player game for me

someone else that says skanky *high five*

round in these ere parts no one says it and i get looked at rather strangly when i blurt it out 😯

Sharki sorry gives me the creeps

Me too but what he wrote was still bloody funny!

I hope it’s not me personally that gives you ladies the creeps.

For the record i’m not a serial groupie.
It was a one off just or the baying audience.
I’ve not used the word skanky in years, i think it must of become uncommon.

Sharki I’m sure they’d have found it creepier if you just showed them the video afterwards…

No not you Sharki, you sound nice!

Skanky is a great word. Just the right level of abuse, not too bad but at the same time, to the point

I sound nice? Aww thanks.

Now where do we stand with that word?

NICE

When i was married and i used ‘nice’ to express my opinion on what her hair, dress, shoes, GF, lover, etc, looked like i’d get slated for it.

It would either have to be it looks lovely or erm it looks fantastic/gorgeous. Well anything but nice.
I couldn’t even say it looked horrible.

Nice was deemed as meaning, plain, ordinary, boring..

Is this the usual response from girls when nice is used?

(as my speech therapist kept telling me…) women do tend to use a wider range of adjectives in normal speech. Men tend not to. Can’t quite remember why.

Your wife of the time was just probably trying to get you to widen your range – but unfortunately doing it in a negative way, picking on what not to do rather then on what to do. Women eh??

🙂

Rachel

there’s loads of other things, too – men emphasise words using volume, women use pitch etc etc

“on paper” the whole lesbian affair thing sounds fun, but I think in reality I’d probably not be so thrilled after the initial excitement wore off and you realise that it’s still cheating.

It think it may of stemmed from our primal beginnings.

Women would sit and socialise with each other whilst doing domestic duties. Whilst men would go out and hunt forage whilst just grunting to each other.

Women created a further range of words to use, so it’s inbuilt in them to use them.

Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.

‘Nice’ is only one step away from being okay.
‘Really nice’ has a bit more impact but clearly is not as good as ‘lovely’ or ‘great’ or ‘fantastic’.

TBH if I tell a girl I had a nice date… I’m probably not going to call her again.

Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.

lol – I know a few that still do!!!

“nice” can be used but, to me at least, it means something very specific – something like warm, comforting, safe.

edit – oo – just looked it up…

nice |n??s|
adjective
1 pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory : we had a nice time | that wasn’t very nice of him | Jeremy had been very nice to her.
• (of a person) pleasant in manner; good-natured; kind : he’s a really nice guy.
2 fine or subtle : a nice distinction.
• requiring careful thought or attention : a nice point.
3 archaic fastidious; scrupulous.

TSY. I understand that. 🙂

If i tried to use lovely, great, fantastic, she’d tell me i was saying it just to please her.
Therefore i developed a compromise between saying it looked great and her thinking i meant it looked skanky, by using the word nice.

I was never going to win.. Basically i lost 9 years of my life to a bitch who i wasn’t meant to be with.

Moi bitter? NO!

I so wanna ask a question. But the mods will kill me LOL.

No go on, it’ll be worth it. 🙂

go on……. do it!!

**** hell Sharki I can understand why you just went off and rode bikes in the woods!!

She sounds like a right ball breaker… a bit skanky.

emsz – 15 min edit rule!! 😀

does that mean i have to keep refreshing my browser now????

I’ve not hit buttons like this since Daley Thompsons Olympics on the C64..

Do it.

Blimmey. DTO on the c64..i remember breaking countless keys and then joysticks playing that.

I’m trying to pre-guess the question…

Ok,
Blokes on here saying the gay girl thing is a fantasy. Why?

How long do I have to wait? 😉

Edit: I see emsz has put her question to the font of all knowledge STW’ers. 🙂

yeah – i wanna hear the answer to this, too

emsz – It’s not so much a fantasy (IMO) but men respond better to visual stimulus. Women to verbal. If I’m being completely blunt I would rather see two women, than a man and a women. I blame Ron Jermey. 😯

I’m trying to pre-guess the question…

The question is obviously “what tyres for…?”

So, 1x Continental Rubber Queen + 2 x Schwalbe Nobby Nics?

Or 2x Continental Rubber Queens + 1x Schwalbe Nobby Nic?

Edit: I’m too fuggin’ slow. 🙄