Anyone had partner cheat and forgiven them

For what Rachel?

And can you show proof of the effects? 😉

I think I’ll decline to prove that one, thanks!!! 😛

And quite rightly so you should to.

Posting pics up on the internet like that is never a good idea.

Thanks though for mailing me the pics.

They clearly show the true effectiveness of the tablets. I shall be making my order once this swelling has gone down.

lololol

err – no…

and they say romance is dead….. Rachel an sharki up a tree….. lalalala 😯

Is your mate and his gf in an equally committed relationship? Or is it one-sided?

It’s all very well people saying yah or nay but life is simply not black or white.

I’m not convinced about 5Elefant’s cod-psychology.
Would it matter if the male cheater were the active partner in a gay adultery, as that would (could) imply he was dominant?
And who’s to say that penetration is necessarily a concomitant of dominance? It’s certainly not in many species.

I do think 5thElefant has a valid point. For all we might want to apply some “higher” moral standard to it, most of us (males) would likely react the same.

Oh – and this…

cinnamon_girl – Member
It’s all very well people saying yah or nay but life is simply not black or white.

I’ve always liked the cod psychology idea.

I once theorised the reason why some men fall asleep straight after ejaculation.

The sole purpose is to mate and cause impregnation.
Once the male has ejaculated the body shuts down because it’s primary role has served.

that explains everything…… 😉

😆

Of course in the case of cyclists, it’s to save themselves some energy for the next ride.

Nah – it’s to avoid all the fake emotional lovey-dovey baggage afterwards…..

so i guess the guys that get tired after round one are the ones that have no energy and should be avoided?

i must have been very good with my selection process then!

druidh..Ssshhh!

They never should actually say that though.

A perfectly executed bit of BS is always the better way try and justify it.

i must have been very good with my selection process then!

Is he 16?

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“Is your mate and his gf in an equally committed relationship? Or is it one-sided?”

Now youre asking.

Aparently she’s was all work work work atm with a weekly blowout down town with her female workmates. AFAIK the relationship was as ok as one could be when one does 60 hr weeks and they hardly see each other.

My missus has fantasies about going with another woman, but not in the slightest with another man. She’s been the only girl/woman I’ve ever trusted.

She once had a chance, but didn’t – this when a very close friend admitted she fancied her and showed her the lot whilst on our sunbed.

I’d have been totally cool with this had it happened, although she knows I’d prefer to be there. If I came home and she told me she’d slept with another woman, then no probs – a bloke would be completely another matter.

but basically implied that if she wasn’t getting “satisfaction” (as she put it) she’d have no hesitation in going elsewhere for it.

So did you have sex with her? Because that sort of discussion is surely only leading in one direction.

This is better than Trisha.

16….not at all, late twenties/early thirties kinda age range for me 😀

aleigh – Member
16….not at all, late twenties/early thirties kinda age range for me

🙁

Counts me out..

Anyone wanna damaged 39 year old.
Pictures available, but not recommended.

oh right – it was okay to ask for pictures of me!!! 😛

sorry sharki, i go for the younger man these days

but not in the slightest with another man

Yeah, course not 🙄

Can i say, Learning loads about blokes on this thread.

allthegear.

I said they’re not recommended but available.

aleigh. It’s just a phase, you’ll grow out of it.

emsz me too

pulls up a chair… what else would you like to know emsz?

Yeti (aged 31 1/2) 8)

I’ve learnt the older ones just want to muck around so am going for the younger type who take us women a bit more seriously 😀

I must be missing something here, I would have thought that sleeping with someone else other than your partner without their knowledge would be cheating and therefore a bad thing. I just posed the ‘would you be mad at me for having sex with another woman’ to my boyfriend and he just said ‘depends if I was there/invited to split you up..{remainder of comment unrepeatable]. Like Emsz I’m learning lots on this thread 😯

Oh you know. I sort of figured most blokes were about as emontionally sophisticated as a bucket of sick But if any of these posts are truthful then you’re worse than I thought! Other stuff too that I’m not sharing! 😳

i don’t think anyone knows how they would deal with cheating until it happens. i know i was willing to forgive and forget but it made no difference so i held my head up high and moved on

I always thought that, in theory, I should understand them but I soooooo don’t….

Rachel

As cool as it sounds I would say bag her! Its going to be twice as bad when she goes out on the town not knowing if she’s going to cheat with a woman/man or even both! She’l have no respect for him if he forgives her and no doubt will do it again. Some people are just selfish and you’l never change them.

See if you can get her to pull a decent looking bird next time and demand a 3some – if not, dump her I rekon 😉

And if anyone is taking any of these posts with less than a generous pinch of salt – well…..

Did you not read my lovely love thread??

We’re very emotionally sophistacted!

*Goes off to watch the Apprentice in a huff… At least the fit one’s back in it*

Oh yeah, there’s the threesome idea. I hadn’t thought of that at all.

Yay.

Threesome.

FFS.

I don’t think there are many men who would claim to understand women though…. men are from mars, women are from venus isn’t it? Life would be boring if we all knew what was going on in everyone elses mind anyway.

I always thought that, in theory, I should understand them but I soooooo don’t….

Your first mistake is trying to understand men!
I gave up trying to understand women a while ago… 😉

good point, well made.