(1) do you use a proper waterproof and get sweaty or (2) go for a Gabba type product where you get warm and wet?
Except that Windstopper, which the Gabba is made from, is actually a effectively waterproof ePTFE membrane. The only reason a Gabba isn’t technically waterproof is that the seams aren’t taped. Windstopper is actually less breathable than quite a few waterproof fabrics. Go figure. 🙂
Anyway… everyone functions slightly differently, some people run really hot, some run cool, some run, some walk, some ride bikes fast, some slow, everyone has different sweat outputs etc. What you say may be true for you, trail running, but may not be the case for someone who runs generally cooler, moving more slowly,
One thing Andy K has right is that really breathable shells let your layers underneath dry out faster when you back off.