I’m 80kg + kit and ran 160s fine both ends in the alps (on avids) on my prophet. Only had heat problems once, and plenty stopping power for the grip on that bike.
Same brakes but 200s on my DH bike, cos bigger softer tyres and better sus mean more grip, so I can haul on harder and notice the better braking. I did have a 160 on the rear for a while though as a spare when I bent a 200, and it was fine too.
I think most folk are probably over-braked. There are disadvantages other than rotating weight, to bigger brakes. It’s harder to get them hot to get pads properly bedded in, it’s easier to ding a rotor riding, and easier to bend one in transit too (more likely).
Try the smaller rotors, and get new bigger ones if you feel you need more power?