Try being called Shameer to make you feel odd from an early age. Took a little while to get that giftshops didn’t stock pens and pencil with my name on 🙁
I have to re-iterate my name a few times and spell it frequently. The common misinterpretations are: Samir, Shamir, Shameel, Shamar, Shareem & Shammer FFS! I also have my name changed to lots of things by mates; Shamalam, Shambo, Sham 69, Shamrock, Shabba, Shabbadelic, Shabbs, Shammy K etc.
I feel like I’m a bit odd anyway, having a name from Guyana doesn’t help. Then there’s where are you from…(1/2 Guyanese, 1/4 Irish, 1/4 Indian) so it’s a whole schpiele.
I’m frustrated by the delay it causes when meeting people. The handshake often lasts too long. As a name it’s ok, it’s just the cultural context which is a pain 😕