the only reason I get given for keeping it in is because ‘people expect it’.
That’s one argument.
Another argument, which we found more convincing was this: “It’s the most expensive important day of your lives. Do whateverTF you want.”
spent the whole of their wedding meal worrying about the first dance
Er, why? You just put your arms round each other, sway a bit and gaze longingly… what’s to worry about?
I think it was a girl thing.