Got married 3 weeks ago. I hate dancing at the best of times, and the thought of doing it with everyone I know watching appealed even less, so we ditched the idea and just let everyone get on with it.
Having spoken to other people who’ve spent the whole of their wedding meal worrying about the first dance, I’m now determined that this was the right answer.
As it turns out, the band insisted on us doing an impromptu last dance, but everything was rathre more relaxed by that stage.
By the same logic, do your speeches early, then you can get on with enjoying yourself 😀