I use Stans, always have done, are other solutions causing problems I’m just not aware of?
Definitely not a dick question. Stan’s user here and I’m having the same issues as the OP. What’s odd is I don’t remember having these issues regularly in the past but seem to be now but it’s not consistently across all my bikes/wheels. I am finding it worse with Amazon/eBay bought cores than the original ones that come with the valves.
Some bikes stand for a few weeks between uses, some are used more often, maybe it’s a core quality issue. There’s a few variables I can think of.