I know the Dutch are famous for being stingy, hence ‘going Dutch’, but I think it is a little unfair.
I am Dutch and have lived In norwich since ’97. To start of I would never have considered going back, I still don’t think it would be practical, but I now have a more balanced view.
Back to the stinginess, I think they are just sensible with money (I have lost that skill), for example, credit card limits are TINY even if you earn a lot.
I do think the ‘going Dutch’ is very undeserved and should be called ‘going British’. I had never been to a party where I was expected to pay for my own drinks until I got to England. I thought (still think) this is really strange. Also you can be ‘invited’ to join someone out for dinner to celebrate something and be expected to pay at least your own share?!? Very odd…. In holland you would never be expected to pay for anything if you were invited to something, the person inviting you pays, no ‘going Dutch’. I really still can’t get used to this…..
The Dutch don’t really hate the Germans, it’s just banter really….