Question 1 omits possibility 4. 2 & 3 are effectively the same (in this case having no information on the order of birth) and are of equal probability which leaves us with 2 options, a boy and a girl or 2 boys.
Ah, 2 and 3 are not effectively the same, they are still two distinctly different configurations, so you have 3 options(1,2,3) and only 1 where the answer is BB so the odds are 1/3. Were you do say the eldest was a boy, then you have two options(1,2) (aasuming the eldest is listed first), so the odds are 1/2.
The tuesday one makes my head hurt, so I’m not going into that 🙂