If you’re online later we can wing up.
Re weapons, you can try two medium beam lasers then the rest multicannons, preferably engineered or, if you’re in the Anaconda, two large beams and all the rest multis. Un-engineered this will give you enough. You really could do with engineered thrusters on it, but A might work. I did reasonably well with turreted weapons on it before engineering which were handy because of the lack of manoeuvrability. However the huge multicannon is awesome, and that’s only available in fixed.
Then you can get a SLF, that will also help. And lots of shield boosters. It was my more effective ship before I got more engineering on the FdL.
In combat, the right loadout is absolutely crucial. I had a hell of a time until I settled on something that worked. Which was (and is usually) beams for shields and MCs for hulls.