My first purchase was a Cobra MkIII and I upgraded it, now I’m in a Keelback
Get back in your cobra, best all round ship til you get to python/krait level, aspX isn’t a bad stop gap tho, but bear in mind it’s got terrible braking. DBX explorer if you want to go, erm…. exploring.
With practice you can dodge npc interdictions fairly easily, if you play in open there’s tactics to avoid them & maybe get away, but you need to accept you’re still going to get wasted by murder hobos – but not too often if you’re careful.
Engineers & guardian stuff can massively enhance your ship, but the grind may ruin the game for you. TBH a lot of elite can be grind-y, so try not to get sucked into it, stick to stuff you enjoy.
Auto-dock lessens accidents (still crashed on occasion a while back, dunno if it’s better now) but manual docking is faster once you get the hang of it.
1300 years in the future, FSD drives, pew pew and railgun weapons but we still cant manually force a reload our kinetic weapons!