My two pennorth:
1) You’ve not helped the assembled stw judge and jury with this description
just as a bloke pulls out also from behind the car in front of her
I’m not the only one confused by this. On my reading, behind the car in front of her, would be her, surely? Perhaps you could clarify what you mean by this. It would, I’m sure, help us immensely in judging you.
2) Fault. Not suggesting in the absence of damage to a child’s face that the police will ever be interested in this, but if they were, then I would suggest that
She says “he pulled out so i stopped, not a clue what that noise was” – it was me hitting her.
is as clear an admission of “without due care and attention” as you could ask for really (on the part of the woman who thereby admitted that when she pulled out she wasn’t aware of an approaching bicycle). In the reality of any sort of arguments with insurance companies etc.
this may be important – she cannot possibly pass any sort of comment on the standard of your riding, whether you were too fast, too close to her, too close to the kerb etc. given that she clearly hadn’t seen you at all.
3) The presumption I’ve seen here a couple of times that if you hit her back end (oo-err) it is therefore your fault is ridiculous. It’s the same as the ignorance you see about the “presumed fault” concept – some people seem to conflate it with proven fault, e.g. if a car hits a bike (Holland is it?) there’s presumed fault, this DOES NOT mean it’s the driver’s fault. It means that it is presumed to be the driver’s fault unless or until it’s shown otherwise. Same here, you can start, and it’s not unreasonable to do so, from the assumption that: bike hit back of car = cyclist’s fault, but that DOES NOT mean that it IS the cyclist’s fault if, when you look at the sequence of events, it turns out that it wasn’t, which it may do here (I’m still confused by the car behind the one in front thing so not quite ready to form a judgement, although I fully intend to do so once I’m satisfied that I have the information I need).
Hope that helps