I’m on 780s or 760s on various bikes and there’s a couple of places where they’re genuinely smaller than the gaps. But it’s not that common really. Built trails tend not to feature such gaps, they’re awkward to build through but it comes up sometimes on ridden in lines, footpaths.
When I went up from 720 to 760 I did keep clattering my bars and hands but that was purely positioning not an actual lack of space.
IMO the real consideration is just your preference and body shape. But I do have a way of creeping upwards, 720 felt mad, then I went to 760 and thought that was too much and cut back to 740, then I went back up to 760, then I tried 780 and again cut them back to 760, now I’m on 780 on both the #enduropoon and the fatbike. And 740 on the hybrid 😆 At this rate I’ll be on yardsticks by 2020