No we haven’t observed this particular ceremony. Didn’t see the point.
However, as well as having spent countless hours in Flanders and the Somme, we think a lot about my wife’s grandfather, who was first a dispatch rider and then an ambulance driver on the Western Front. His wedding photo hangs on our wall and we think about him a lot, although neither of us knew him. He died of stomach cancer during WWII, which may have been a result of being gassed in WWI.
We shall also be going to Ypres next year (for the umpteenth time) to lay flowers on the grave of one of my relatives. I didn’t know him, but my grandfather would have done, and that brings it a lot closer.
We care very much about remembrance, candles or no. As I’m sure many others do.