The insulting to parents thing is a real consideration, but they are fully aware of what I think of their choice of names (first and middle are frankly ridiculous.) I think it would still be disappointing for them but probably not as bad as the 40 years that I’ve had to put up with the names they chose.
It’s funny how something that you have no say over is deemed so integral to your identity.
TBH, I’m actually not that bothered about the first name anymore but the middle name is god awful.
real_ben10, I know what you mean about it being too late to change it, wish I’d done it in my 20s.