hora, whilst I suspect your questions were directed at the OP, I’ll answer from my perspective.
I was on a ride yesterday that had a couple of challenges that made me stop and think. One was a drop at the foot of a rooty descent. It was a little too high to roll and had neither a smooth approach or landing. I bottled it first time but second time it proved easy and rode away with a huge smile.
The other obstacle was a fallen tree diagonally across the trail. I looked at it and wimped out of attempting to bunny hop it. I’d like to be able to bunny hop obstacles on the trail so I can keep the flow.
“Jumping” is not just about learning how to ride doubles and table tops.