IME road plus steep off-road is something you’ll never find a good gear for.
I used to run 36×16 (61″) on my Cross Check, which was ok… just about bearable on the road, but only just, and usable for a lot of off-road; but it did count me out of some of the steeper off-road climbs near me and after a while I decided to put gears on.
For context I use about 70″ on a road bike and about 52″ on an MTB, and they’re fine. If it was a case of “ride out on the road, ride off-road, ride back on the road” I’d use a cassette hub and dinglespeed it, but for completely mixed rides I’d probably be thinking about a hub gear.