They have a long history of not being very nice
They have a long history of behaving exactly like Tories. Except for about three decades after the War when they behaved a bit like socialists, before reverting back to being proper Tories again.
A sufficient amount of people voting Conservative gets you a Tory government, no one need be in any doubt about that – they don’t try to hide what they are. If you don’t like that then blame the people who vote them.
I don’t blame the Conservatives for behaving like I would expect them to behave.
In contrast I do blame the Labour Party and I have no intention of forgiving them, not least because they are completely unrepentant.