I removed one no problem with an angle grinder, just metal discs from B&Q or those that came with it (lidl special) I think.
Just cut down level with one face of the sq taper. Try not to cut al. and steel with the same disc as it can cause fire (probably not an issue in a home workshop but if you had a load of swarf from other stuff it could be.) – think thermite reaction.
It looks like you’ve been grinding all over the place, not keeping it focussed on making one cut that will do the job.
In terms of the BB, hopefully its steel shell/steel frame, or alu shell/alu frame, then it should come out without much bother. You can clamp the BB tool in the vice and rotate the frame around it which gives you a lot of torque – and soak in plusgas for a while first to make it as easy as possible before you break any tools or fittings for tools.