Don’t matter what ‘nature and motivation for the objection’ at all. Completely irrelevant. He’s broken the rules, then seems to think it’s ok for him to do so and anyone who (quite rightly) opposes his selfish behaviour is ‘spiteful’.
If I smoke a spliff, knowing it’s illegal to do so, and I get nicked, there’s no point me whining ‘oh no you’re out of order for nicking me’, is there?
I’d be interested to know just how willing the OP would be to air his views were the complainant a proper massive psychotic lump with a penchant for ‘orrible violence…
TBH the OP is out of order for going round the woman’s house. What was that meant to achieve? if I’d bin her, I’duv told him to do one coming round my house disturbing my peace and quiet with his nonsense.