The new HTCs are indeed better than the old iPhones, when they work!
I went through 7 HTC desires in 6 months because of faults. They wern’t broken externally it was all hardware/software problems they were replaced quickly by orange each time but as there is no backup facility on either the memory card or the HTC sync pc software I had to sign up to google again and re-download all my apps every time, there is no account history from what I can see. and yes that includes your pair for aps, a bloke at work lost a £20 satnav app after only one week!
I now have a second hand iPhone 3G (not the 3GS) and it works fine as a phone its not as fast as the HTC but the 3GS (my wife has one) isnt far off. Where the apple really exceeds is that the app store remembers what you have already downloaded as does iTunes, not sure on the backup for all little settings like pics and ringtones as it hasnt gone wrong and I’ve had it since April