Pretty much every time I’ve broken a bone, people have come out with homespun wisdom along the lines of “It can’t be broken, it obviously doesn’t hurt that much”. Get it checked! If I’d got my hand checked when I broke it, they’d have fixed it and it’d have healed straight instead of all wonky and scrapey.
(disclaimer- the time I actually got it diagnosed as broken, turned out to be the third time I’d broken a hand- they did an xray of the “unbroken” hand for a comparison and found 2 ropey old breaks. I’m obviously very stupid)
Also, loath means reluctant, loathed means felt disgust for or extreme dislike.