Here’s the line IMHO:
Be nice! It’s not hard.
Blokes that say – “cor she’s nice” “I would” “she’s got a great ——” are being nice
Blokes that say – “she’s a ten pinter” “I wouldn’t with yours” “my dog is better looking” “she deserves to be gang raped for lifting weights like that” are not being nice (BTW that last one is real, taken from another forum, but was even more offensive).
The other thing I CANNOT STAND is when pro-lady MTBkers are discussed firstly for their looks and then secondly for their riding. There are amazing female cyclists out there and it’s such a shame their talents are put down the list behind their sexual attractiveness (or in some horrid posts I have read, lack of). That’s not saying complimentary comments aren’t a great thing, but quite often riding skills are totally left out.
BTW – that’s a general statement not directly targeted to STW only!