feeling tingly/guilty….

honestly she isn't worth it mate 😉

Pretty much the answer to your quandry is "grow up".

Footballers & celebs might be into trolling around with lots of women who they're not in a relationship with, but normal bods don't, or if they do, they shouldn't. It's Ok to have women as friends, but you come across in the first post as being keen to take things with this girl a bit further, if the chance came up.

Gosh. It's almost as though the '60s had never happened. 😀

thanks for your thoughts and advice….

i remember now one of the things she said to me last year….

she told me of a dream she had where we were holding hands in a bar or restaurant and then later she was in the bath and i was sitting next to her on the edge of the bath having a chat…

mmmmm.

still.

sweepy – Member

You cant help chemistry and a bit of flirting does no harm. It would be insensitive to let the GF know about it. I dont get the impression you are seriously considering acting on it.

you're right, i'm not.

DaRC_L – Member

Simples – picture yourself as an old man, is the current gf with you being old?

with.

Alpin – whatever.. Mark Datz, new era for STW methinks LOL… 😯

Just ask yourself, what would Jesus do? Innit.

I'm beginning to go back to my first instincts that this is a troll…especially with the dream revelations.

Own her with your own personal Bomber wee in her shoes on way out?
If you really love your current GF – and it is not an open relationship- then walk away from your ego boosting flirty yank whislt you are still able to control the dumb stick.
Perhaps get some nuddy pics of her first 😉

not a troll. the dream thing is true.. hence the tingle.

I had a client who often said things like "Ooh, I had a dream about you last night" when I rang up. My stock answer of "was I good?" was usually met with a rather sexy "Very…", then we'd launch into the usual work talk.
It was a bit of harmless fun that made the working day pass more pleasurably.

I did end up knocking the back out of her though, so perhaps not the best example.

Other option is just go the whole hog, and arrange to meet up at the local swingers club. Your happy, she might be, your GF also gets a good seeing to at the same time 😀

she's also a great girl, but has got a screw or two loose somewhere.

Which presumably means do it! 🙂

Shebolet r there any jobs were u work I havnt bond a chick in agis and I nede mony 2 get new bike

Stay away or go for a meal with your GF and her BF.

How would you like it if your GF did the same to you?

Been there -it's nice but never let it go that far! -trouble ahead!
Reconnect with your GF asap.

Mark Datz – Member
Shebolet r there any jobs were u work I havnt bond a chick in agis and I nede mony 2 get new bike

Mark, there's always a job waiting here for you… 🙂

If you're absolutely convinced that nothing will ever happen, and that all the flirting is just that, a bit of harmless titillation, then no worries, see the girl, have fun, whatever.

However, if you can't, and that really you just wanna shag, and you both know it, then MTFU and leave it alone.

cheers nickc

@zaskar…. plenty connected…

thanks guys, we'll leave it there.

Your GF won't be needing this song then!

I thought Alpin wiz olereddy bonen hez lndlaydy ?

nah, that's my mate. he's still at it. his old man found out, well everyone found out because his nan let slip. not so bad you might think, but his dad's new missus (i.e. mate's step mum) is best friends with the landlady. well, was best friends. step mum hasn't spoken to landlady since xmas.

bit sad really, but the pair of them said f-it…. and are just getting on with things.

not bad for matey; he's 21, she's 38 (and fit! – milf milf milf milf)….. 😯

hoffentlich nicht, Edukator….

Is it just me? I seem to find myself looking out for alpin's posts. 😯

No I'm not from bunff I dony lik germins there not bad peepel but I don't yndarstnd them

My Dad's from 'bunff' and English people often find it hard to understand him 8)

Alpin
I had a 'friend' like that on a course a couple of years ago which is the main reason I am typing this in a rented house on a Friday night on my own, even though that is all she was, a friend, who most definitely didn't even give me a 'tingle' !! Women have a sixth sense about these sort of things, even when it's just an embryonic musing …

though i did make the mistake of describing this septic as "a pretty girl". her face changed after that to one of curiousity to jealousy….

proves it.

ps. my ex was/is mad as a fish so maybe the above isn't entirely relevant 😉

She's on a fishing expedition and you are the bait. Don't fall into the weak male stereotype as others have said, that way mess lies.

I have a male friend who is in the exact situation too…it's like watching the lead up to a car crash happening in very slow motion.

Two questions.

Have you told your girlfriend everything that you think and feel about this other girl? If not why not?

Would you be happy if the positions were reversed?

Its not a friendship – its a flirtation and they are not conducive to an honest happy relationship with your current girlfriend

Anyone mentioned back doors yet?