feeling tingly/guilty….

Girls usuly won't talk to me

tell us something we didn't know 🙂

mebbe sum grls tlk funi lyke da Datz innit? 😉

On the up side she might make a fantastic f*ck buddy! 😉

or do what my mate did, organise a meal/drinks night out with the both partners along as well, wait till you get home, then jump on the bed like a love panther, tap both sides of the bed invitingly and purr "come on guys what about it?" wink…..

sadly his missus punched him full in the face bringing the proceedings to an abrupt halt.

On the up side she might make a fantastic f*ck buddy!

My thoughts exactly, and on BD's original post, not his lazt wun!

how would you feel if your mrs did it?

that tingly guilt is probably the most sustainable enjoyment you will get out of this situation
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as with many things in life, acting on your impulses often leads to pain, misery and regret, the only upside being good material for your mémoires
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as the great Homer J once said "the first step towards failure is trying"

When you're single you tend to chase the quick burning easy targets out of necessity and move in for the kill ASAP. Now you are in a relationship you have to treat this one as a slow burner and keep it warm until you find yourself single again (which it sounds like you almost certainly will).

thanks steve!

it's just odd… we've got a lot in common.

both met our other-half in australia whilst backpacking.

both moved to germany because of our other-half (her's couldn't get a green card).

both used to take lots of drugs before moving to germany where such things aren't so readily available.

er…. that might in fact be all we have in common.

oh, and we were on this course together….

Stalker?

It's always cool to find people that you get on really well with…but I think you should ask yourself how you would feel if your girlfriend did the same with a guy she had a connection with.

Personally, I'd meet up as 2 couples or take my other half with me. Then the message is loud and clear and everyone can be friends 🙂

Y don't u c if they will sheer u mayb 1 can hav u mon we'd fri & other 1 on other days then swop 4 the next week it will be fun 4 u all coz the girls can get bond by other dudes on ur day of

Y don't u c if they will sheer u mayb 1 can hav u mon we'd fri & other 1 on other days then swop 4 the next week it will be fun 4 u all coz the girls can get bond by other dudes on ur day of

Eh? 😕

No I'm not from bunff I dony lik germins there not bad peepel but I don't yndarstnd them

Mark Datz – Fantastic! The Dizzy Rascal of STW 😆

Y don't u c if they will sheer u mayb 1 can hav u mon we'd fri & other 1 on other days then swop 4 the next week it will be fun 4 u all coz the girls can get bond by other dudes on ur day of

Surely it's more effort to type like that, than it would be to use the correct letters in the correct order?
Just a thought…

DrP

the GF has a few mates who are male and with whom she gets on really well. nice enough blokes, but not my cup of tea….. a bit too effeminate. any bloke who can talk on the phone for over 30 minutes before deciding to come round or go for coffee isn't worth worrying about. or maybe that's their ploy….

i've not got a prob with the GF meeting her mates. same as she hasn't got a problem with me meeting mine. some of her mates are male, some of my mates are female.

though i did make the mistake of describing this septic as "a pretty girl". her face changed after that to one of curiousity to jealousy….

Alpin – Sounds like you've got the 7 yr itch and only you will know whether it needs a scratch! Your certainly not going to get the answer from faceless middle aged jealous forum bloggers pontificating about the rights/wrongs on whether you should or shouldn't go and see your friend alone. After all just because youv'e got the maybe I would/maybe I woudn't thoughts, those feelings would have to be mutual by both parties surely.

Surely it's more effort to type like that, than it would be to use the correct letters in the correct order?
Just a thought…

DrP

Grandad 😀

Y don't u c if they will sheer u mayb 1 can hav u mon we'd fri & other 1 on other days then swop 4 the next week it will be fun 4 u all coz the girls can get bond by other dudes on ur day of

Stunned by this guy; truly; SUNNED

hey Alpin, you sure her and her BF are hoping for an Alpin sandwich? 😀

Mark Datz ….amazing stuff, he needs to join the crown race..

oh and Alpin….know the feeling, it'll pass.

naokfreek – Member
oh and Alpin….know the feeling, it'll pass.

It probably will, but no reason why he shouldn't enjoy a bit of high-octane sports sex with her while the iron is hot so to speak…

True. But it'll end in tears, these things always do….so have your thoughts but don't carry them out, imagine that..go on.

I think we should have a quote of the day from mr datz, the guy is a genius. Absolutely love the 'ete pizza' line.

i've got 2 birds on the go. twice the expense, 4 times the hassle.

i'm stressed just thinking bout it!!

seriously – don't bother.

As you go through life you will met many people you have a “connection with”, as you rise in stature and age at work you will more as likely find yourself in the company of younger pretty young things who listen to you and laugh at your jokes out of a mixture of sympathy and the desire to impress the boss, you may also retain some attraction that also brings these ladies to you. The difference between a human being and a rutting beats is the fact that you can sit down and think…

Do I want to hurt my partner, screw up my life, and risk everything for the chance to bump uglies with someone who will just as likely do the same to the next guy? I get a frisson of excitement when some of the temps in the office invite me out for a drink or wander about the office in inappropriate proto office wear. But then I think of my wife and all the years of fun and happiness we have and how pathetic the thought of losing all this is for the chance to undergo the same sensation I have had many times with many other ladies when I was younger until I found it all to be a bit samey with the lights off and ultimately went looking for the something more I found in my wife.

On the other hand if she makes you realise that you and your partner just don’t have a future then do the descent thing and break up with her before you do anything else.

Simples – picture yourself as an old man, is the current gf with you being old?
If not, then bang away and let the emotional fireworks commence – but just remember the lyrics to Bobby Brown

MrP you can't apply logic to catz lyk da Datz 😀

I think the way Practical Matt has phrased the question tends to steer us in the direction of one particular answer. 😀

You cant help chemistry and a bit of flirting does no harm. It would be insensitive to let the GF know about it. I dont get the impression you are seriously considering acting on it.

Die Deutschen flirten sehr subtil und yankesses are prick teasers. Only you know if you like feeling foolish.

alpin – Member

not that i shouldn't be doing it. just think each of us has this little "what-if" spark going on…..

mmmm…..

Save it for the w@nk bank & step away, relationships are full of what ifs, but its not until you've burned your bridges that you realise what you have lost, just be clear in your mind that you want to move on before you proceed.
Cheers.

No I'm not from bunff I dony lik germins there not bad peepel but I don't yndarstnd them

Now, if EVER there was an example of irony ……..

fadda – Member

You kinda have 3 choices, don't you:

1. carry on as you are (probably not viable long term)

2. jack it in with the current GF/BF and give it a go (might be fabulous, but is likely to lead to a suspicious relationship because of the way you got together)

3. Stop right now and not risk what you already have. (Boring but easy, or leads to long-term happiness if you and you current GF actually have something).

Or

Option 4.

Dome one off into a 'jiffy' bag, post it to her, she can pour it on her hair, face, boobs etc. Mission accomplished, no harm no foul. From the description you gave of the two of you I think you'd both enjoy that.

Don't go there! The sex will be fantastic but you'll be sorry & you'll probly end up in a world of sh!t.
(I did a similar thing about 9 years ago.) She'll be a bunny boiler, mark my words.

PS, whenever I think of 'my' bunny boiler I still get a hard on. 😈

coz the girls can get bond by other dudes on ur day of …..

laughing fit to soil myself. if that isn't the post of the week i don;t know what is. mark datz, you are a comedy behemoth.

Just do her you know you wanna 😉

You just want us all to say 'yeah that'll be great, and your GF will never find out'

Gently stroke her perineum and see where it leads….

That's near her elbow, right?

BigDummy – Member
That's near her elbow, right?

Durrr, no, it's in her herbacious border between the tulip and the stinkhorn.