Communication with him has been a bit sketchy and he’s trying to make out I’m the bad one because I raised the PayPal dispute without giving him enough of a chance to sort it out with the courier company. Knowing how bad myhermes are though having had dealings with them in the past I’m just trying to cover my arse here. I paid £400 for a frame over 3 weeks ago
I’d just follow it through the paypal route. If he wants the frame back he arranges collection. If someone had messed up and really tried to help etc/lots of emails I’d post back at my own cost.
However if shes being sketchy on emails and its dragged on for 3 weeks he can arrange its collection etc IMO. Just take lots of pics with you packing it. Then into the same box and email him the pics saying here it is/packed and ready for collection. He then can’t send you a pic back with ‘look its poking through the box’ bollocks.
Do you ‘owe him anything’?
No.
1. You are out of pocket/without a frame to build etc
2. The stress and hassle (lack of emails etc)
3. Your time
4. Sounds like a dick (STW’er by chance?)
Its not your fault he cut corners. When I send a frame I use plumbing copper pipe foam covers zip tied all over the frame etc as I don’t want to risk it.