I think it depends on how much post you have showing…I have an 18″ Pace RC-200 F8…it has about a foot of post showing and it is very comfy (for a hardtail) – in days gone by I’d spend all day out in the hills with it and didn’t feel beat up with it.
Next bike was a slightly larger frame and less post and it did feel a bit harsher…
Next bike had a carbon post (but also full bounce) – another long post showing but I couldn’t tell the difference – due to full bounce I guess.
They do bend more than alloy posts, but you don’t ever feel it, they seem plenty strong – unless you are a very heavy person and a very rough rider.
They don’t get greased when putting in frame and you shouldn’t over-tighten the clamp, but otherwise, dad on…