Brainy sorts – help me decrypt these clues

Ok, we are looking for things you can wear:
“Let it stand, boy”
“In common with Holly and Ivy”
“Snog a leader”
“Strike at the golfer”
“Found in a Tulsa riding school”
“Take the back of rifles”
“The pink lady novelist less a pub”
“Miss a catch”

There are 79 like this and these last few are driving me nuts. There’s £25 at stake!

“Found in a Tulsa riding school” SARI

“Snog a leader” Neckerchief

“In common with Holly and Ivy” – A beret perhaps?

The pink lady novelist less a pub – Bra (Barbara Cartland – a bar)
Take the back of rifles – Stock?

“Strike at the golfer”- a dress?

“strike at the golfer”: cufflinks? To “cuff” is to trike and links is a seadside golf course. Tenuous at best, I appreciate.

“Let it stand, boy” Stetson

Stet is a Latin word (meaning “let it stand”)

“miss a catch” Slip?

Well done muddybum,I type too slow.

You lot are blardy amazing. Wait til I show Mrs Wheel.
algarvebairn, I thought of slip for this one, but I thought slip had more to do with a position on the field than dropping a ball? Or am I still wrestling with the wrong end of the stick??

Holly and the Ivy carol is maybe crown?

The holly and the ivy
Now are both well grown
Of all the trees that are in the wood
The holly bears the crown

We thought of crown too but that came up as the answer to another question (worth five shillings)Like willard we also thought of beret; though the Ivy has a flower, not a berry, in the song.