I lived in Holland for 4 years and have to say, Belgium was our regular escape route – particularly weekends in Antwerp. Better food, better beer, better service, not so uptight and generally a lot more fun loving and laid back bunch of folk to hang out with.
A lot of people’s perception of the Netherlands is based on a weekend visit to Amsterdam -that’s as wrong minded as basing your entire view of the UK on couple of hours in Covent Garden. The rest of the country is not like that at all.
People who’ve only ever been to Amsterdam seem to think that the Netherlands is a shining beacon of hedonism and tolerance. In reality it’s a deeply conservative country with a lot of snobbery bubbling under the surface and a LOT of overt racism. Also virtually nil sense of humour- I can’t say I ever found that in the Belgian cities I’ve spent time in (Antwerp, Ghent, Brugge etc).
Antwerp in particular has a great music scene, really strong design culture and a vibrant food culture.
I think the reason that the country as a whole has something of an image problem is that it’s really only been an independent nation for a few hundred years.
Sure it’s got its share of s***hole industrial wastelands, notorious serial killers and a pretty dodgy colonial history, but doesn’t that sound familiar?