Wow. I don’t quite know what the most startling thing about this thread is.
Is it speed of escalation into a bun fight between people who should be ‘on the same side’?
Or is it some of the spelling and grammar?
For what it’s worth – here is my tuppence worth.
Firstly start from the assumption that the rest of the world is populated by halfwits. This gets you to a useful rule of thumb before you start considering anything else. Given that you are dealing with halfwits who don’t realise that their lovely little car is probably the one thing in their lives with which they can easily kill or maim others, then it is probably best to stack the odds as much in your own favour as possible. Wear something bright, have at least two flashing rear lights and have your front light on in anything but bright daylight. Ask yourself the question – what do I stand to lose by doing this? A few quid and you look like a bit of a prat. What do I stand to lose by not doing this? Your life.
I shouldn’t have to check the bill after a meal out or a hotel stay, but I do because it amazes me how often someone has ballsed it up.
Each and every day we all do things to mitigate against the incompetence of others, so doing it when your life could be on the line seems a small extra effort to make(?)