I did the Cairngorms Classic 100 on a voodoo wanga with slicks and a carbon pace fork last year.
If they are going to riding at somewhere around 15mph for a social/paced ride then no problem if you have slicks – and you could also put a rigid fork (on-one carbon) on the front to reduce weight. If you are fit then you could go quicker, obviously. Wear clipless and just spin those pedals…
You won’t necessarily hurt as much as they do as your riding position is a bit more upright and so they may be getting more back pain than you…
I got gapped on the downhills by the mates I rode with but would then catch them up on the climbs.
The climbs that the roadies might mention as being tough will be easier for you are your gearing range is better for hills.
Take some Nunn or similair rehydrating tablets, and maybe some Powerbar protein bars. I packed some and when some of my mates were flagging I gave them the bars and tablets and they were rejuvenated.
Trying to tuck in or draught for a pull is a waste of time, so don’t bother.
Plus as you are on a mtb then you can relieve the boredon whenever you see a tempting looking dirt track and have a blast down there.