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Frankenstein - Member

After 10 years of being super close soul-mates with my girlfriend/partner,
She just ignores me for 2 weeks no calls or text (we call text/talk
Throughout the day and she would worry if I hadn't text her for a day).

She deleted her instant messenger on her mobile so I could not message her.
And ignored my emails to see if she was alive as I was
Worried sick she was ill or dead etc.

Turns out she was busy sanding her table and couldn't care less about us.
I asked if something is wrong but she was too busy to talk.

I'm miffed as I have projects to complete this week and I was worried she was
dead etc and I'm fuming from her Treatment

I told her it was over and she hasn't replied. (We live in different cities.)

So what road frame shall I buy?

Sorry for immature rant.

Posted 11 months ago #
captaincarbon - Member

Sanding her table?

Posted 11 months ago #
catflees - Member

Was it not possible in the last 10 years to move in with your soul mate and sand her table for her?

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

To varnish.

Sorry but I've felt tortured with worry about her wellbeing etc.
Now she couldn't give a to$$ about us.

Just out of the blue and stressful period at work.

We live in different cities due to work.

Just been quoted on a new carbon frame...

Posted 11 months ago #
flip - Member

Genius made me lol and lol and lol

Posted 11 months ago #
pearlbaz - Member

"if you like it, then you shoulda put a ring on it"

Posted 11 months ago #
Cougar - Member

she was busy sanding her table

Never heard if called that before.

TBH, if my "super close soul mate of ten years" disappeared and I thought she was dead, I'd have turned up on her doorstep after 24 hours, rather than bemoaning the lack of Internet chat a fortnight later. She's probably pissed off that you've been together for ten years and still live in different cities.

You've got two options.

1) Go see her. The only situation in which you end a ten year relationship by text message is when you're breaking up because you've hit puberty.

2) Fill your boots whilst you're single, chalk it off to experience and buy a new bike.

Posted 11 months ago #
iDave - Member

are you 12?

Posted 11 months ago #
don simon - Member

It's often difficult when the two live i different cities and the main form of communication is either by phone or text. I have had a couple of long distant relationships that have failed, but that's life. The distance allows each partner to develop their own hobbies and eventually grow apart. This might be a test of the strength of the relationship, if you love someone, set them free, etc... You need to be strong.

In short, to answer your question. Have you tried Ribble?

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

I did go to her house daily, contacted her family who said she was fine with them.

She won't talk about it and ignores any correspondence.

I did chat today and she acted if nothing was wrong and couldn't give a dam.
I went AWOL camping and she called the police and my parents after a day.

MTFU and moving on. Merida frame on offer

Posted 11 months ago #
j_me - Member

Can't help you on the relationship advice.
Have you tried
Rebound Cycles ?

Posted 11 months ago #
CaptJon - Member

Carpenters are notoriously bad at relationships, they often have a chip on their shoulder meaning commitment is hard. Your effort was probably the glue which held you together, but you can't hammer away forever. I'd cut your losses, move on, start afresh and chisel out a new life.

Posted 11 months ago #
Cougar - Member

*applause*

I did go to her house daily

Was she out?

Posted 11 months ago #
DrJ - Member

I went AWOL camping and age called the police and my parents after a day.

Maybe she just doesn't understand what you are saying. I know I don't ...

Posted 11 months ago #
xcgb - Member

Capt jon i like your plane way of speaking

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

Lol

(She was never home...)

Cutting my losses but 10 years jeebers!

Life experience I guess.

My heart is splintered...

Posted 11 months ago #
xcgb - Member

thread of the week already!

Posted 11 months ago #
DrJ - Member

Carpenters are notoriously bad at relationships

Yes - they get saw very easily.

Posted 11 months ago #
iDave - Member

Sometimes it's hard for two people's lives to dovetail.

Posted 11 months ago #
xcgb - Member

It really goes against the grain....

Posted 11 months ago #
Cougar - Member

Maybe she's gone off blokes completely and is looking for some tongue & groove action?

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

I feel like a plank

Posted 11 months ago #
don simon - Member

A common interest?

You can ride and she can sand your tube.

Posted 11 months ago #
DrJ - Member

Probably she does not feel that you woo(e)d her prooperly.

Posted 11 months ago #
Cougar - Member

You can ride and she can sand your tube.

A girl with a talent like that is worth keeping hold of.

Posted 11 months ago #
j_me - Member

Although she must have a vice?

Posted 11 months ago #
Stoatsbrother - Member

Priorities first...

Has she got any of your bikes round her place? If so - legal advice re access to them may be needed.

Re question in your OP. Buying the Shiney Thing always helps.

Posted 11 months ago #
Bregante - Member

Have you both been faithful to each other over the last10 years? Mahogany can be hard after that long.

Posted 11 months ago #
Burls72 - Member

Maybe she's gone off blokes completely and is looking for some tongue & groove action?

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

Thanks for cheering me up folks!

At first I felt like the last nail had been hammered in the coffin but now realise
wood can be rubbed up and down till you feel like a new man...

No point trying to repair dead wood.

Going to Order a new Merida road frame £859
After work.

Posted 11 months ago #
The Southern Yeti - Member

Hi,

I'm more than happy to copse off with your ex to help her get over the relationship.

Yours obliging,

Yeti.

(e-mail in profile)

Posted 11 months ago #
don simon - Member

but now realise
wood can be rubbed up and down till you feel like a new man...

I think I see why she left you, sweetpea.

Posted 11 months ago #
Cougar - Member

Hey, maybe she's just got board and started screwing around. You could mope around pining for her, or go and find a hot chick to nail.

Posted 11 months ago #
Frankenstein - Member

Sorry Yeti but deleted her details now and moving on.

You're welcome to her!

Posted 11 months ago #
singletrackhor - Member

Hope you oakay after the split, OP

I wood recommend a road bike to help, a boardman

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