PJ’s to bed – the beginning of the end?

I need your advice….

Been living with new partner for about a year now – last night was the second time she has worn PJ’s to bed (last time was -5’c outside and we were in a tent – I complained then, but kinda let it go…).

Anyway, having spent the whole evening rebuilding her bike and not even getting on to mine, which needs some serious work before the weekend, I got to bed to find her wearing PJ’s. She made some random excuse, but I suspect she was making some point about me ignoring her all evening. OK, so I did ignore the odd suggestive text, but both bikes were in a bad way and mine still is (oh, and Zane Lowe was on form on the radio… That plus a beer on the go and a major re-build in hand, I was in the zone!).

So should I be concerned? Should I just leave it or what?

If PJ's worry you, there no chance! But you have to remeber- the bikes will wait, she might not..

Mine likes her PJ's and Horlicks.

But she's let me build a bike room so she's ace.

Bikes or nookie…..bloody hell there is no question in my mind.

Unlucky 😛

Why are you talking to US about it? Shouldn't you be talking to her?

I did ignore the odd suggestive text

You Sir, are an idiot. Or over sexed 😕

whats the problem here? , she wears the jimjams warms up then (if the mood takes you both) they're easy to remove . no problem.

I never wear pj's and haven't since I was about 12 but mrs carlos feels the cold and nearly always does. It hasn't got in the way for the last 20 years!

"I've changed my mind about your PJs, I think they're really hot. Will you wear them for me tonight? I'll bring the flash grenades". 🙂

OP not everyone is oversexed. Well, just you and your missus 😉

Have some Kahoonas' – just tell her you find PJ's in bed replusive!

This forum is the WORST place to come for advice on the fairer sex. You would be better off asking a hermit for that kind of advice than on here!

Good luck

And sorry. You text one another from different rooms of the same house?!

PJs are fun to rummage in 🙂

Can we make "rummage" the word of the day please? 😀

BD, is that a quote?

PJ's are easily ripped off.

*has mental image of SFB 'rummaging' in PJ's*

Pass the bleach……….

This forum is the WORST place to come for advice on the fairer sex. You would be better off asking a hermit for that kind of advice than on here!

+1
Asking a BIKE forum about your bike getting in the way of your relationship kind of either shows or expects a certain amount of bias.

IMO- plenty of ladies I have known have gone for the PJs, if they're not on I'm on for a cert' or will atleast find myslef so charged up at the posibility I will pester until sated. Even if they are worn though, they soon come off. I sleep in my T shirt that I've had on all day, so I'm hardly Mr Lover man am I?

Just beware of cuddly toys coming into the picture- that's the real end of it all.

PJs = Decorators…

😉

PJs are fun to rummage in

😆

Edit: Sleeping in a tent? Quite frankly if you're too mean to pay for a good quality hotel, there really wouldn't be any point in bringing out the Myla. 🙄

Yeah, hate it when our lass wears her PJ's like this…..

its a sure sign of the beginning of the end!!!

I wear PJs and am a hnuge success with the ladies.

*has mental image of SFB 'rummaging' in PJ's*

yes I have that mental image too and quite enjoying it 🙂

PJs = Decorators…

which need not be any barrier to activity either :o)

How is this bad? Or is it not quite like that chez House? 🙂

PJs are the work of Satan and all his little demons. Full stop.

It isn't the beginning of the end. It IS the end. Give her her marching orders

Mine significant other does & I had the same reaction…. just splash out on a few pairs that you find her attractive in …then cut holes in the others 🙂

then cut holes in the others

Or "rummage-ports", as we like to call them. 😀

skiprat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PJ's is not the begining of the end. The beginning of the end is when her legs are hairier than yours

Simon – which are you, the 'rummager' or the 'rummagee' ? Just so, well you know, if I ever find myself in an awkward situation (cough).

No nookie then go and strip her bike down again.

Simon – which are you, the 'rummager' or the 'rummagee' ?

The former – I'm not good at taking the passive part and don't posess any PJs.

Lol – thanks guys – feeling better already

So are you saying I should give in EVERY time she demands it 😉

I think I have two issues I am struggling with. The first is that I'm a bit grumpy 'coz my bike still isn't fixed, but hers is and she didn't show any appreciation, well, not in the way that I was hoping for 😉 The second is that she knows I don't like her PJ's… OK – I could buy her some PJ's I like, but doesn't that mean I am encouraging her to wear them?…

Why oh why are women so complicated?

Not sure why, but I have an image of you snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'. If I'm to be completely honest, it's an image that makes me feel dirty, and not in a good way 😕

are you saying I should give in EVERY time she demands it

You are an EPIC bastard. 😀

snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'

Actually chortling out loud at this… 😀

"rummage-ports" !!

Had me L.O.L.ing – fantastic.

Its a slippery slope. It starts with PJ's, then its tracky bottoms and slippers around the house in the evening. Before you know it….

Sorry Cinnamon Girl – missed your post – Posh camping…

I'm hearing the voice of bitter experience talking binners… 😉

Not sure why, but I have an image of you snuffling like a badger whilst partaking in the aforementioned 'rummaging'. If I'm to be completely honest, it's an image that makes me feel dirty, and not in a good way

hey, don't try to hold me responsible for your diseased fantasies!